Girls, I need boy advice!

[snowpup]

Ok, so there's this guy at school that I like... Well ok I really like him. So... let's call him Conner (cause that's his name, duh!). Well anyways, he is perfect. He's cute, smart, funny, outgoing, caring... I could go on forever, but there is one thing about him standing in my way; he's popular. You know, a "prep" for a better term. But I mean, he hangs out with my best friend all of the time, and she's not a prep, but she is perfect. Along with some other girls who he hangs out with too.
So, i guess my real question is, should I change the way I look to get his attention. I know that he want's a girl to look good, but that's not his main priority. He's different than the other "prep" boys at my school, just adding another thing to the list of his perfect factors. But I really don't want to be a "prep," I just want to be me! Yet I know if I don't do something, I will never stop thinking about it. I just don't know what to do!
Oh, and one more thing. My best friend likes him too. So i guess another option is to forget about him (which would be hard) and let her have him, because they really are a perfect couple.
Lol, one day at school and it's come to this... wow.

Please help me gals,
sNoWpUpZ

[singer101]

dont change just for a guy if hes as u say he is then he'll like u for u!

[xx_mileyrocks_xx]

he sounds like a jerk. im sorry, but if I were u, id let him come to YOU, dont chase after him. o and where do u live?

[*~Mileyfan~*]

just be yourself let him notice you for who you are

[Ashley T luv]

xx miley rox xx don't ask her where she lives!!!!!!!!!!!
They are right don't change for a guy!

[miley smiley]

be your self, dont be like rude like u once did on her like this: ''......sit here feeling like crap!!!'' or: ''well d'uh! this is lame!!!!'' (not being rude cuz they were 2 times! and i like u n e ways) so put on a slammin' outfit and get ur confidence hopes up and go ask him out and if he says no just say ''well if you change ur mind......'' then wink at him then walk away! its alot easier if u just do it!

[LukkiStar]

Here's my best advice. Belive me, no guy is worth changing for. Not even the cutest guy in the world should matter that much. I know what you mean about the whole "prep" thing. Because he's a prep (but a nice prep) You think that he won't want to hang out with you. Try a study date, or just ask him out to a movie. Hang out with him when he's not with your best friend. If you try to "compete" for him with your best friend, you'll end up best friend-less, and boyfriend-less. So just try to be friends. If it's meant to happen, it will. If he does go out with your best friend (not saying he will), it's not the end of the world, although it may seem that way. So you'll be a little upset at first, but you'll get over it eventually and the world will go on. Hope that helps!

[Ridha]

MILEY_SMILEY and LUKKISTAR u guys give really good advise!!!!

[Sk8er_Chick_Texas]

omg how cute
well for the change ur look thing DONT b urself and talk to him about anything like ....hmmm....cheese or idk and make urself stand out let him notice you
as for the friend liking him thing ..... talk to her about it and if she gets mad its not ur fault maybe she will let you have him i hope this helps
if so pm me
rairai

[CountryBoy92]

Trust me, guys can tell if a girl changes. I wouldn't want to go out with a girl who isn't being herself, and is just putting up a front. Trust me and all of these girls. Be yourself, because I'm certain that there's a nice guy out there who will like you for you.

[SomedayStar]

You know, im one of those kind of guys. Im everything that you say he is smart, popular, funny , outgoing, ect, and i have girls that i hang out with. Sometimes their friends com in and also become my friend by slowly earning my trust. Do that and show the real you, the fun loving side that cannot be tammed. Also if you go out, go BOWLING! Us guys love to bowl!!!

[Skater]

The part about your best friend liking him all is fair in love and war go for it He might actully like you in secret.

[i wuv miley cyrus]

Im a guy...dont change...be yourself. If he dosent like you for who you are. Then hes not worth it.

[123_abc]

Ok, so there's this guy at school that I like... Well ok I really like him. So... let's call him Conner (cause that's his name, duh!). Well anyways, he is perfect. He's cute, smart, funny, outgoing, caring... I could go on forever, but there is one thing about him standing in my way; he's popular. You know, a "prep" for a better term. But I mean, he hangs out with my best friend all of the time, and she's not a prep, but she is perfect. Along with some other girls who he hangs out with too.
So, i guess my real question is, should I change the way I look to get his attention. I know that he want's a girl to look good, but that's not his main priority. He's different than the other "prep" boys at my school, just adding another thing to the list of his perfect factors. But I really don't want to be a "prep," I just want to be me! Yet I know if I don't do something, I will never stop thinking about it. I just don't know what to do!
Oh, and one more thing. My best friend likes him too. So i guess another option is to forget about him (which would be hard) and let her have him, because they really are a perfect couple.
Lol, one day at school and it's come to this... wow.

Please help me gals,
sNoWpUpZ

omg my advice is just be yourself dont change anything or whatever just be yourself...and if ur friend likes Conner too...u guys gotta work things out together!

[destiny hope cyrus fan]

Yeah like what ppl are saying be yourself don't change let him chase after you!

[freakyfn3]

You know, im one of those kind of guys. Im everything that you say he is smart, popular, funny , outgoing, ect, and i have girls that i hang out with. Sometimes their friends com in and also become my friend by slowly earning my trust. Do that and show the real you, the fun loving side that cannot be tammed. Also if you go out, go BOWLING! Us guys love to bowl!!!

wow someone is not cocky about himself. but anyway he is right just hang with your friend when she goes talk to the guy and you will get to become friends eventually. next time for guy advice you might want to ask guys. most guys generally think the same:P

[Warda711]

OK well first of all u should never ever change for someonelse... if that guy doesnt like u for who u r... You shouldnt be chasing him he aint the right guy.. make him like u for who u r not wat he wants u to be... u get wat im saying??

[xx_mileyrocks_xx]

xx miley rox xx don't ask her where she lives!!!!!!!!!!!
They are right don't change for a guy!


i mean the state because there's this guy named connor at my school. and bud out please.

[Xx Miley*Cyrus xX]

be yourself u want him to like u 4 how you are not who your not

if he doesn't notice u at all just wait the perfect guy will come one day just keep wishing!!!

(but just a few changes won't hurt just not too much!)

[Bestofbothworlds]

omg this is just like my thread lol!

http://www.mymostwanted.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9633
i need advice too!