Crush confusion!

[xoxohuggablemiley]

Ok, this is going to be long and confusing, so you may want to sit down....

Ok, so there is this guy at school who I really like, and he's has been so nice to me lately, and just for a silly ring pop, he KISSED me! He told me he only likes me as a friend, but he has been so nice to me lately! I don't know if he like likes me or just likes me. He is also always near me...like he tries to like be next to me everywhere, when I eat, write and even sing (chorus group) he's always next to me! I don't know what to do! If he DOES like like me, then I can tell him that I like him, too, so we can be boyfriend and girlfriend, but if he only likes me as a FRIEND, I wouldn't want to ruin or gross out our friendship. So please, do you have any idea why is he like that? And why he kissed me just for a candy? This is SERIOUS CRUSH CONFUSION!!!!!!!!!!!! Tell me what to do or what NOT to do?
And by the way, if I tell him I like him, and he DOES like me, we'll be boyfriend and girlfriend, but if I tell him I like him and he DOESN'T like like me, it will ruin/gross out our friendship and if I DON'T tell him I like him and he DOES like me, it will be kind of hard to be around him and if I DON'T tell him I like him and he DOESN'T like like me, we'll just be friends and thats ok. but I want to be MORE that friends!

[mileymontanafan]

ok im sorry i can't really help..but thats kinda whats going on with me but its really diff. at the same time so im sorry

[xoxohuggablemiley]

ok im sorry i can't really help..but thats kinda whats going on with me but its really diff. at the same time so im sorry
Thats ok!

[secretive_angel]

i m not saying u should do this but maybe u could ask one of his close guy friends or have them ask who he likes. just do what u think is right it is the best choice u can make

[xoxohuggablemiley]

i m not saying u should do this but maybe u could ask one of his close guy friends or have them ask who he likes. just do what u think is right it is the best choice u can make i no, but if i tell him i like him, and he DOES like me, well be bf and gf, but if i tell him and he DOESN'T like like me, it will riun/gross out our friendship and if i DONT tell him i like him and he DOES like me, it will be kind of hard to be around him and if i dont tell him and he DOESNT like like me, well just be friends and thats ok. but i want to be MORE that friends!

[zacsgirrl12]

Get your closet friend to go ask him who he likes.

If he says, " Ilike ______(your name)"

then have your friend say,

" Well she likes you too. Maybe you guys should go out."

And then meet up somewhere and talk about something

[xoxohuggablemiley]

Get your closet friend to go ask him who he likes.

If he says, " Ilike ______(your name)"

then have your friend say,

" Well she likes you too. Maybe you guys should go out."

And then meet up somewhere and talk about something but i dont think that he would just say, "well, i DO like _____(my name)" to my friend, then of course he will know my friend will tell me! he would never do that. he's too smart for that.

[Hannah~Montana7764]

Ok first of all, do you really like him? He obviously really likes you if he kissed you just for a piece of candy. How old are you anyway?

[xoxohuggablemiley]

Ok first of all, do you really like him? He obviously really likes you if he kissed you just for a piece of candy. How old are you anyway? yes, I've liked him since 1st grade, and i'm 10 (gonna be 11 on jan07)

[Hannah~Montana7764]

yes, I've liked him since 1st grade, and i'm 10 (gonna be 11 on jan07)
wow i thought you were like 16 if he kissed you. wow you're too young

[xoxohuggablemiley]

wow i thought you were like 16 if he kissed you. wow you're too young
he kissed me on the cheeck

[Mileygurl245]

ooo that's a hard 1...umm i don't think ur 2 young....umm just c what happens i guess and if he really likes u he should tell u

[xoxohuggablemiley]

ooo that's a hard 1...umm i don't think ur 2 young....umm just c what happens i guess and if he really likes u he should tell u
well, ok, but he IS the WAITING type.

[just_like_you_92]

well, u kinda are too young, but if i were you, i'd either:
a. wait for the right time to talk to him. then ask him if he likes you. if he says yes, good. if he says no, then just say that u thought he might like you since he is always folling you around
or
b. you could have one of his friends talk to him or one of your friends. hope this helps!
-hannah

[xoxohuggablemiley]

well, u kinda are too young, but if i were you, i'd either:
a. wait for the right time to talk to him. then ask him if he likes you. if he says yes, good. if he says no, then just say that u thought he might like you since he is always folling you around
or
b. you could have one of his friends talk to him or one of your friends. hope this helps!
-hannah
your second one wouldnt work, and the first is pretty good, but he will never tell me his TRUE feeling for me.

[~ActressMiley]

I'm sorry I can't help! But see what I am doing cuz I have a situation like this is kinda just talking to him and I KNOW he like likes me cuz he told my friend who told me and he even wrote it down and the friend gave it to me so I know... So maybe what you can do is have a friend write a note, and they don't even have to put their name and then give it to him or someting asking if he likes anyone... If he says yes ask like if it is in that class. But don't ask who, unless you want to. Just keep asking like, what's her hair color, are you friends, etc. I don't know if this will help, but just a suggestion!

Best Of Luck

[xoxohuggablemiley]

I'm sorry I can't help! But see what I am doing cuz I have a situation like this is kinda just talking to him and I KNOW he like likes me cuz he told my friend who told me and he even wrote it down and the friend gave it to me so I know... So maybe what you can do is have a friend write a note, and they don't even have to put their name and then give it to him or someting asking if he likes anyone... If he says yes ask like if it is in that class. But don't ask who, unless you want to. Just keep asking like, what's her hair color, are you friends, etc. I don't know if this will help, but just a suggestion!

Best Of Luck thx, but if i DO do that, after my friend will ask the question and put it on his desk, and he will answer, where would HE put it? he wont even know who wrote it. but ill try that.

[Mileygurl245]

well, ok, but he IS the WAITING type.

ok then idk if ur really good friends with him u could b like so who do u like

[xoxohuggablemiley]

ok then idk if ur really good friends with him u could b like so who do u like
true....

[tori]

same thing is happening to me only the guy I didn't kiss me for candy.

[xoxohuggablemiley]

same thing is happening to me only the guy I didn't kiss me for candy.
what a coinkydink! but please!!!! avdice people~

[xoxohuggablemiley]

Please???????????????

[miles/hannah788]

yes, I've liked him since 1st grade, and i'm 10 (gonna be 11 on jan07)
I am 10 2!But ne way he obulosly likes u if he kissed u.So mayby u should try 2 tell him u like him.Srry if this doesn't help.I don't really give good advice.

[xoxohuggablemiley]

umm..not really! any1? this is really a major problem!

[violared21]

I PMed you some advice, Hope you liked it!!!

[xoxohuggablemiley]

now this good advice was given to me by violared21, if you want advice as good as this e-mail her at lime_green_frogz@yahoo.com." Thanx!

[Mileyrox14]

Well, Ashley Tisdale flat out told a guy she liked him. He said he didn't like her that way but hoped they still could be friends. So, take a chance and tell him. Telling him the truth doesn't always gross out a friendship. And if he does like you, then things will be what you wanted. If Ashley can tell a guy, you can.

[violared21]

I already gave her some advice.

[xx_mileyrocks_xx]

Ok, this is going to be long and confusing, so you may want to sit down....


Ok, so there is this guy at school who I really like, and he's has been so nice to me lately, and just for a silly ring pop, he KISSED me! He told me he only likes me as a friend, but he has been so nice to me lately! I don't know if he like likes me or just likes me. He is also always near me...like he tries to like be next to me everywhere, when I eat, write and even sing (chorus group) he's always next to me! I don't know what to do! If he DOES like like me, then I can tell him that I like him, too, so we can be boyfriend and girlfriend, but if he only likes me as a FRIEND, I wouldn't want to ruin or gross out our friendship. So please, do you have any idea why is he like that? And why he kissed me just for a candy? This is SERIOUS CRUSH CONFUSION!!!!!!!!!!!! Tell me what to do or what NOT to do?

And by the way, if I tell him I like him, and he DOES like me, we'll be boyfriend and girlfriend, but if I tell him I like him and he DOESN'T like like me, it will ruin/gross out our friendship and if I DON'T tell him I like him and he DOES like me, it will be kind of hard to be around him and if I DON'T tell him I like him and he DOESN'T like like me, we'll just be friends and thats ok. but I want to be MORE that friends!




What's with the funky colors?

[pksllayer]

0.o my brain hurts from all this.

[xoxohuggablemiley]

What's with the funky colors?
i dont know, felt like it

[xoxohuggablemiley]

0.o my brain hurts from all this.
rub your temples, helps me.

[Lanae_M]

Tell him how you feel cause he did kiss you

[xoxohuggablemiley]

ya, but he kissed me for a kandy, and that cnady was pretty big and good.

[babyblue232]

let him come to you. if he wants you, he'll make the first move. but if he doesn't in say, 3 months, you need to make the first move. if he doesn't respond to your move, theres nothing going on between you.

[xoxohuggablemiley]

Good Advice Everyone!

[mileysbestpal164]

i heard this from a million people but just take ur chances u never know wats gonna happen

[Mileyrox14]

I already gave her some advice.
hello, that doesn't mean more can't be given!

[xoxohuggablemiley]

Ya! who knows, it might not work! I need at least 3 good advice! I already got 1.

[Hannah~Montana7764]

well maybe you could wait a couple of years then you could ask him out later...

[xoxohuggablemiley]

umm.. hes moving at the end of May....

[lemesis]

talk to him

[JewelRock123]

Are you good friends, or more you just talk now and then?
If that's the case, I would try to wait until your older and meet someone else.
If you are good friends,
I would just talk to him. You don't need to ask him if he likes you, just walk up to him when he's not busy, and find a place to talk.
Start with "there's been something on my mind, and I need to talk to you about it." Tell him there's nothing wrong, but it's important. Don't walk around the subject, be straight to the point. Tell him you have a great time as his friend, and you've developed a crush on him. It will take a LOT of guts to do this, but don't back down. You'll never know if you suddenly chicken out.
Say that you don't want to ruin your friendship, so you completely understand if he wants to stay friends. If you never tell him, you'll never know. If he doesn't say anything or if he runs off, he's not mad, just confused or speechless. You should not wait forever for him to say something, just say you've said everything, so you'll see him around. after the talk, give him a little space. Keep in mind you are a little young, so waiting might be a good idea.
Very Best of Luck.

[flower1]

a) talk to him now before he moves. b) DUMP HIM

[miley_smiles923]

please dont bump threads

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