Re: Friend or not?

[Hannah Montana = Life <3]

i have this "friend" who isnt all that great. she has gone emo, and fought with me and other people about 1,000,000,000,000 times. its starting to make me mad. she's hardly nice to me, and sometimes she just wants to use my stuff because she's somewhat poor and i have alot of things. im not saying im rich, but im saying she's poor. if i tell her i dont want to be her friend anymore she'll probably do something really bad, like spread a really bad rumor about me, or turn my friends against me. im starting to worry. pls help.

EDIT: and today she was mean to me just because the only thing we talked about at lunch is her. i didnt care, bc it was boring, and it wasnt anything i care about

Well just because she went emo doesnt mean that you shouldnt be her friend anymore. buttt everything else that you said is. you dont need a friend who fights with you and your friend and gets mad at you guys for no reason. and also, if shes using you for your stuff then that also isnt worth it. and just the fact that you are scared that she'll start rumors about you or turn your friends against you just proves that shes reallyyy not that great of a friend. i say that you have to stop being her friend... because she's obviously not worth it. and you cant be the only one who notices how shes acting... and knows that shes being mean and whatnot, so your friends will hopefully know that the rumors rnt true and not turn against you. but honestly, from what i read, she isnt the kind of person you should be wasting your time and energy trying to be friends with. you'll be happier when you dont have a friend who's constantly mad and what not.

~Hope it helps!

[Miley's_3_lives]

thx for the advice. ill try to take it to use

[tashismashi]

She's obviously not your friend the way she's acting.

You need to talk to her. She might be feeling sad about something in her life.

If she continues to be mean, you might want to make some other friends. You can't continue to go on with her being mean to you. That's not what friends are about.

Hopefully she won't spread rumours, but if she does.. you need to talk to a teacher or you parents.

I hope everything goes well...

Tasha xx

[Miley's_3_lives]

i do talk to my friends and they dont like her either. they also think she is really mean and annoying.

[Kaitlin]

ah she seems really rude, shes gone emo lol

nice advice. :)

[mileyroxx]

Good advice...

[pksllayer]

Hmm doesnt seem like a person i'd want to meet >.< generally such behaviour stems from a deeper inner lying problem within the person which manifests itself in a behaviour such as this and i think that there is really somthing going on in this "friend"'s life that maybe causing her to be this way. Since you already mentioned that you do talk to your friends and i take it that she says nothing is wrong you should just distance yourself from here for a while and giver her some breathing space or tke it into your own hands to find out if there is anything that is really bohering her that she is tight-lipped about.

[Miley's_3_lives]

^thats what i am doing at school. she isnt in any of my classes but computers (and that will end in about a month) so i think i should be drifting farther and farther away

[Sydney001]

Ok I have a freind just like that and I'm on Christmas Break right now and I'm going to give her a serious talk when I get back! I have other friends and so do you so if you don't like her go strate up to her and talk to her then go over to your other friends and hang with them so she can't steal them. MMMMAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNN tooooo much drama in this lifetime!!!!!!