Hannah Montana = Life <3
11-30-2006, 07:48 PM
I've been born nice. I've been told I'm nice. What the problem is:I'm too nice!! I can't say no to anything. My Mom tells me that I should stop letting ppl take advantage of me, but still, too nice! I've been trying to say no to some ppl, but sometimes I can't say no. I know that some ppl like me nice, but I don't want to be too nice. I don't know what to do!
by,
Ella Enchanted
Well, ya, being nice can be a good thing... and im definatly not going to tell you to stop being nice! buttttt you have to know when you need to put ur foot down. because the more you keep being overly nice and never saying no and whatnot, the more people are going to take advantage of you. saying yes to everything and being o verly nice to people may eventually give off the idea that it is okay for them to walk all over you. and saying no will also make you feel better... because after a while, if you say yes to everything, you are going to have too much "on your plate" and you are going to get really stressed. so the best advice i can give is if its something that you really dont wanna do, just say no... you dont have to do it. also, you need to let people know how you feel about things. you cant let people think that everything they do is okay. if you are upset about something, let people see that... dont just let it go. being THAT nice can lead to people walking all over you and hurting you. so yeah, be nice... but theres a fine line between nice, and too nice fr your own good.
~Hope it helps!!
by,
Ella Enchanted
Well, ya, being nice can be a good thing... and im definatly not going to tell you to stop being nice! buttttt you have to know when you need to put ur foot down. because the more you keep being overly nice and never saying no and whatnot, the more people are going to take advantage of you. saying yes to everything and being o verly nice to people may eventually give off the idea that it is okay for them to walk all over you. and saying no will also make you feel better... because after a while, if you say yes to everything, you are going to have too much "on your plate" and you are going to get really stressed. so the best advice i can give is if its something that you really dont wanna do, just say no... you dont have to do it. also, you need to let people know how you feel about things. you cant let people think that everything they do is okay. if you are upset about something, let people see that... dont just let it go. being THAT nice can lead to people walking all over you and hurting you. so yeah, be nice... but theres a fine line between nice, and too nice fr your own good.
~Hope it helps!!