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[freelelandchapman]

ok, I've got quite a few problems. i hope y'all can help.

1) First off I'll start off with one o my friends. She first began to hang out with me and then started to hang out with all these other people which HATE me. and so I told her about it and she cryed and so we had to go talk it out and stuff. and that was LAST year. and now this year, it's like she dosent even talk to me or WANT to hang out with me anymore.
and sometimes shes like my best friend. it's weird.

2) some of my friends are just smart alecs. it's like I can't even SAY anything around them without them correcting me. they just correct, correct, correct. and they think they are os great and stuff. and it makes me sorta mad...I guess they think i'm stupid or something.

3) my friend moved away. and we used to talk ALOT. like alot alot. we used ot be bff's. and now it's like i'm losing her. and it really hurts. she enver talks to me anymore. and she is all into where hse lives now.. it makes me sad.

Thanks so much for helping. (If you can)

1. talk to her...its possible she just doesnt want to get hurt again....if she still does it, make new friends.

2. you need to talk to your Alecs! i used to have a problem with that...tell them it makes you feel bad to have them correct you all the time.

3. moving away is a part of life. even though you would still like to be friends, you arent going to be as close as you once were...maybe call her and tell her that you still want to keep as close as possible and you feel like she is pulling away!

[Hannah Montana = Life <3]

ok, I've got quite a few problems. i hope y'all can help.

1) First off I'll start off with one o my friends. She first began to hang out with me and then started to hang out with all these other people which HATE me. and so I told her about it and she cryed and so we had to go talk it out and stuff. and that was LAST year. and now this year, it's like she dosent even talk to me or WANT to hang out with me anymore.
and sometimes shes like my best friend. it's weird.

2) some of my friends are just smart alecs. it's like I can't even SAY anything around them without them correcting me. they just correct, correct, correct. and they think they are os great and stuff. and it makes me sorta mad...I guess they think i'm stupid or something.

3) my friend moved away. and we used to talk ALOT. like alot alot. we used ot be bff's. and now it's like i'm losing her. and it really hurts. she enver talks to me anymore. and she is all into where hse lives now.. it makes me sad.

Thanks so much for helping. (If you can)

okay soooo...
1. it seems like since she started hanging out with the new group of friends... who dont like you, she's started to not like you. so it seems like she's very easily influenced, or she was desperate to be friends with the other people, even if it meant ditching you. and you dont really need a friend like that. if its that shes easily influenced, then you never know what she'll get into... drinking, drugs, etc, and you never know what pain she may cause you with those things. and if its that she was so desperate to be friends with them, if you win her back, you never know when she'll ditch you again for another group of friends. so maybe its better you just move on from her... because if not she could turn around and hurt you.

2. o yes, the smart alec friends... but maybe they are just being sarcastic? because i know my friends and i are sarcastic with eachother all the time... and sometimes we end up with people mad at us cuz they didnt know we were kidding... so maybe its the same thing with them? maybe they are kidding but they just sound really serious? and if not, try doing it back to them. once they see how it feels, maybe they will stop

3. its hard to have a bff move away. and i know you think that you're gunna be friends forever, but as time moves on and you see eachother less and less, its only natural for you 2 to grow apart. but that doesnt mean that you have to completely lose her as a friend. but it may not be the best thing to expect to be bffs with her forever, because shes gunna get new friends, as are you. she'll always be there, but maybe just not as ur best friend anymore. try to work out a schedual, where you call eachother on the phone atleast 2 times a week... and set aside a specific day where you each have about an hour, and just talk to eachother... dont lose touch with her completely! cuz that will really hurt! but just because she's so far away is no reason to completely lose her as a friend... its just gunna take more effort.

~Hope it helps!

[mileyroxx]

interesting.

[Running_Girl]

wow. Thanks guys. =] that helped.

[hannahmontana_101]

that has happend to me too. i know how you feel