Re: Mr. Perfect

[Hannah Montana = Life <3]

So there's this boy in my class. He's posotively perfect in every way. He's cute, smart, funny, interesting, the star of all the school plays, popular, and he knows it. He gets whatever he wants, whenever he wants. He always has to be the BEST at everything. His nickname is "Mr. Golden" because "everything he touches and does turns to gold". But I like him. I really really like him. We get along well, because we're both really smart and we do well in school. Trouble is, one of my best friends likes him so much that she actually STALKS him. And he hates her. I try to impress him by doing stuff, but he's always better, no matter what, and I end up looking really stupid. Any advice?

well first, no ones perfect and this guy has to have a flaw somewhere, so just watch out. cuz ya never really know what this flaw could be. i mean i dont know him but from my experience, the "perfect" guy always tends to turn out being not as perfect as i thought. but even though your friend really likes him, if he isnt into her he isnt into her. and shes just gunna kinda have to except that after a while. but trying to impress guys can usually turn out in you looking stupid. you have to be yourself around guys, and then they will either like you or they wont. if you try to impress a guy by doing something that you usually wouldnt do, he's gunna like that girl, not you. and thats not gunna ever be a real relationship cuz he isnt gunna know the real you. so just be yourself around him. and if he doesnt like you, you may be hurt for a while, but its better then being hurt because you're in a relationship with him only becase you tried to do stuff to impress him, stuff that you usually wouldnt do. the best advice i can give you is just be yourself around him. because you said you 2 get a long really well and have stuff in common... so if your just who you are around him, he'll realize that... and thats what a real relationship can be made of.

~Hope it helps!

[Miley98]

Yeah, I sorta have the same problem but the boy isn't really smart. Lukkistar go for it!

[xx_mileyrocks_xx]

good advice jess ;)

[perfect10n]

okay umm First I will say that you don't need to show off for him becuase in the end you usually do end up making a fool of yourself. Second if he doesn't seems to like you for you when you do act like yourself then he isn't worth your time and he deffinetly isn't Mr.Perfect for you. Third the way you say he is perfect well trust me he isn't he is just perfect at what he does, I know from experience that eveyone messes up at something. whether you see it or know about it there is probably atleast 5 times in a week he messes up, he just might cover it up, make it seem cool, or people just aren't around to see or notice. Fourth You friend needs to get a life. You don't stalk someone just becuase you like them, that is the way to get them to be scared of you. In every relation ship each person needs space to feel comfortable.

[pksllayer]

Adding to perfecti0n's point, if he doesnt like you for who you are but rather the stuff you do to show off to him he really isnt really mr.perfect. In addition no one in the world is perfect so i guess you should also look out to see if his flaws are major faws such as that of character. lastly you should define what is Mr. Perfect for you because ultimately if you do decided to commit to a relationship you will have to go thorough difficulties with him. just a thought.