Hannah Montana = Life <3
11-20-2006, 09:36 PM
Okay I found out this funny guy in class ''loves'' me (is crushing on me) and I luv someone else, I over heard him saying he's asking me to the prom, but I'm asking the guy that I luv, I don't wanna hurt the other guys feelings so what do I do??
And if he asks me to the prom I really don't wanna hurt his feelings but I wanna go with someone else and it's making me so upset and people are trying to force me to go out with him and I don't like it and I'm really upset and I don't know what to do:'(!!
If you ask your date first, then when the other guy asks you you can say that you already have a date, and there is nothing wrong with that. but if you dont ask the guy you want to go with first and the other guy asks you then you have to tell him no, not that you already have a date, but just no- that you dont want to go with him. and that'll hurt him... especially if he likes you. but maybe you should ask the guy that you want to take before talking to the other guy, kind of avoid the whole prom topic with him until you ask the other guy. that way if theguy you want to take already has a date or for some reason says no, you can go with the other guy. he can be your "backup date". and i know thats realllyyyy mean but its better for you because you'll have a backup incase the guy you want to go with cant go. and you wont have to tell the other guy that you dont want to go to the date with him and break his heart. But dont let your friends or other people or whoever try to talk you into going with someone, its totally you r choice. do whatever makes you happy... not what is going to make other people happy.
~Hope It Helps!
And if he asks me to the prom I really don't wanna hurt his feelings but I wanna go with someone else and it's making me so upset and people are trying to force me to go out with him and I don't like it and I'm really upset and I don't know what to do:'(!!
If you ask your date first, then when the other guy asks you you can say that you already have a date, and there is nothing wrong with that. but if you dont ask the guy you want to go with first and the other guy asks you then you have to tell him no, not that you already have a date, but just no- that you dont want to go with him. and that'll hurt him... especially if he likes you. but maybe you should ask the guy that you want to take before talking to the other guy, kind of avoid the whole prom topic with him until you ask the other guy. that way if theguy you want to take already has a date or for some reason says no, you can go with the other guy. he can be your "backup date". and i know thats realllyyyy mean but its better for you because you'll have a backup incase the guy you want to go with cant go. and you wont have to tell the other guy that you dont want to go to the date with him and break his heart. But dont let your friends or other people or whoever try to talk you into going with someone, its totally you r choice. do whatever makes you happy... not what is going to make other people happy.
~Hope It Helps!