Hannah Montana = Life <3
11-19-2006, 06:38 PM
I Have A bigggg Problem. I Really Like This Guy But He Is Like My Best Friend. He Is Always There No Matter Whether I Need A Shoulder To Cry On Or Someone To Jump Up And Down In Joy With. But He Is So Cute And Sweet. Will Someone Plz Give Me Some Advice. I Really Do Not No Wat To Do. And I Cant Talk To My Friends About This Cuz If I Tell Them By Friday It Will Be All Over School. And I Really Dont Want That To Happen. So Will Someone Plz Give Me Some Advice. Should I Ask Him Out And Risk Our Friendship If He Says No Or If He Says Yes And Then We Break Up. Or Should I Just Give Up And Try To Get Over Him And Savor His Friendship( My Mom Says Boyfriends Are Whatever But Friends Are Forever) . He Is Soooooooooooooooooo Sweet And I Love Him As A Friend And I Think That We Would Really Have A Connection If We Were A Couple. We Talk All The Time And When I Broke Up With My Last Boyfriend He Was Right There Fo Me To Cry Too. I Like Him Sooooo Much And I Really Want To Go Out With Him Not Only Cuz Hes Really Hotttt But Cuz He Has Such A Good Personality And I Really Love Him As My Best Friend. And The Other Reason I Dont Want To Tell All My Friends Is That One Of Them Might Tell Him And Then Our Friendship Would Be Ruined And I Wouldnt Even Of Had To Ask Him Out. And I Really Think That If Anyone Found Out Someone Else Would Ask Him Out Just To Make Me Mad(not One Of My Friends.) Ok I Should Probably Stop Now. Buttt Please Helpppppppppppppppppppppppp Me Cuzz I love him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ahhh sorry it took so long for someone to answer you!!
okay well u said in ur thing more than once that you love him as ur best friend... so first i think you really need to think about and answer this question... do you really love him as more than a friend? and if the answer is yes then you have some thinking to do. cuz you definatly dont want to mess up your friendship with him... and if he said no, that would probably break your heart and you may get mad at him.. im not saying hes gunna say no, in just saying IF. and if you go out, and you go through a rough breakup, that could also make ur friendship extremely awkward! but at the same time, if u really love him and he loves you back, then you 2 could have an amazing relationship. so u have to make the call... is it worth risking an amazing friendship for an amazing bf/gf relationship? i wish there was more advice i could give but i dont know the whole story and i dont know how you feel, so i cant tell you what to do. but maybe you could tell him that you want to try things out, for a week, and see how awkward or whatever it would be. and tell him that you dont want anything to mess up your friendship... so whatever happens happens, but you will always be friends. and then try it out for a week and then after the week is over talk with him and be like do you think we could do this or would you rather be friends? but again, i dont know his personality and i dont know how u 2 feel about each other so i dont really know what to tell you.
~Hope it helps!
ahhh sorry it took so long for someone to answer you!!
okay well u said in ur thing more than once that you love him as ur best friend... so first i think you really need to think about and answer this question... do you really love him as more than a friend? and if the answer is yes then you have some thinking to do. cuz you definatly dont want to mess up your friendship with him... and if he said no, that would probably break your heart and you may get mad at him.. im not saying hes gunna say no, in just saying IF. and if you go out, and you go through a rough breakup, that could also make ur friendship extremely awkward! but at the same time, if u really love him and he loves you back, then you 2 could have an amazing relationship. so u have to make the call... is it worth risking an amazing friendship for an amazing bf/gf relationship? i wish there was more advice i could give but i dont know the whole story and i dont know how you feel, so i cant tell you what to do. but maybe you could tell him that you want to try things out, for a week, and see how awkward or whatever it would be. and tell him that you dont want anything to mess up your friendship... so whatever happens happens, but you will always be friends. and then try it out for a week and then after the week is over talk with him and be like do you think we could do this or would you rather be friends? but again, i dont know his personality and i dont know how u 2 feel about each other so i dont really know what to tell you.
~Hope it helps!