Puberty (girls)

[Hannah Montana = Life <3]

Boys make fun of me because I am kind of flat-chested and a few say that I have no butt and i don't really have one. I'm not sure of to do!

Everyone's bodies do the whole puberty thing at a different rate... so if people make fun of you cuz ur flat chested or whatever so what... who cares? i mean i know its not as easy as tuning them out but seriously, its not ur fault and theres nothing you can do to make it happen quicker... so you just have to try to ignore them. and soon enough you'll catch up with everyone else. i know that im personally smaller than a lot of my friends, but i've learned to just accept that and thats what you need to do too. whatever the guys are saying you should just tune out because they probably have no idea what they are talking about anyway.

~Hope it helps!

[Baby Vanessa]

good advice

[kayla_baseball]

just be happy with who you are and ignore them, boys do that because they like you most of the time

[kayla_baseball]

i have some of those probs too

[metz-norway]

tell them to search for their own "small" problems. That'll get em quiet:D

[megdolphinlover]

ya lol!!!!!!

[OliviaCartwright]

y'all are perfect the way you are are. think about it this way. some girls wish it was the other way around. lol there's absolutely nothin wrong with it. just ignore them cause they aren't girls and they don't know about going through stuff like that. (at least i hope they're boys lol)

[smiley2772]

yea

[gurlzrock101]

tell them to search for their own "small" problems. That'll get em quiet:D

ha lol avtually i will! they say it like everyday and the'll be like Anna doesn't have no milk but this girl Nika isn't flat chested and so he'll be like but Niksa does. But she hates when they say that because they will actually ask her got milk? She tells them to shut-up and gave themma look.

[gurlzrock101]

thanks for all the advice but it's hard not to ignore them!

[miley smiley]

That's great advice!
I'll try the same 'cause loads of people [including friends] have been teasing me 'cause my breasts are ''large'' for my age.

[metz-norway]

That's great advice!
I'll try the same 'cause loads of people [including friends] have been teasing me 'cause my breasts are ''large'' for my age.

lol thats the thypical thing. in a while they will turn the other way around being like jealous. its all just normal. actually, theres nothing specific called "normal". It all is normal. Some people do develope faster than others, thats all. Nothing abnormal to be faster or later out with it, nor in between.

[gurlzrock101]

lol thats the thypical thing. in a while they will turn the other way around being like jealous. its all just normal. actually, theres nothing specific called "normal". It all is normal. Some people do develope faster than others, thats all. Nothing abnormal to be faster or later out with it, nor in between.



u make sence or ur advice makes sence lol

[gurlzrock101]

That's great advice!
I'll try the same 'cause loads of people [including friends] have been teasing me 'cause my breasts are ''large'' for my age.

yeah my sister is like that but i didn't take after my mom but my sis did. it's not fair! my sis is a size c or D and I'm a size 26 A lol:lol:

[miley32hannah]

I don't like my body.Last year in fourth grade I started wearing a bra but they were kinda big.

[metz-norway]

u make sence or ur advice makes sence lol

lol sry. im trying hehe. oo maryland. i got relatives there ^^ I've been there. like baltimore and so :P

[SupaStaRrMiley92]

thanks for all the advice but it's hard not to ignore them!
To help you with this problem just believe that they're all IDIOTS. No, just kidding. But they are if they make fun of you. You're special and they just can't take it8-)

[mileyrocksbigtime]

I don't like my body.Last year in fourth grade I started wearing a bra but they were kinda big.
Same here

[ΜĭľėуĊуŕŭŝŁövëř♥Je§§îca]

yea dat iz true u gon have to hear all tha time but tha best iz to go along wit em be like o well itz none of your consern

[HannahMontanaRocks]

good advice

[mileyrocksbigtime]

My mom told me a long time ago.when I was 9 I needed a...Bra.Then one day I wore one,the someone saw the strap,said are you wearing a bbbrrraaa???I said no,Cuz I was short,But big for my age,I didn't want to be embaressed,Cuz my crush was behind me,listening.Then my mom got me other ones,But I'm not sure if I should wear them or not
HELP!!!
-Emberassed

[gurlzrock101]

My mom told me a long time ago.when I was 9 I needed a...Bra.Then one day I wore one,the someone saw the strap,said are you wearing a bbbrrraaa???I said no,Cuz I was short,But big for my age,I didn't want to be embaressed,Cuz my crush was behind me,listening.Then my mom got me other ones,But I'm not sure if I should wear them or not
HELP!!!
-Emberassed


If you need a bra then you need to wear it because if u didn't then u can tell and that's when it's embarissing. that's not really advice because i know it's not good adevice anyway but it's actually true which reminds me, I'm in seventh grade so in sixth grade I wa in Language arts class and we were in a group and it was all boys and there was my cousin and two other boys. And I wore a shirt that had narrow straps ad my cousin saw me push my strap back intoo my shirt and he's like why are you wearing a braw? You don't have anything! And that was embarissing I said shut-up and then I told him that he's stupid to say that infront of two other boys. So my problem is that I have nothing but ur problem is that yo have some stuf but ur embarrest to say u wear a braw when the boys saw it so my story wasn't really helpfull lol.

[mileyrocksbigtime]

If you need a bra then you need to wear it because if u didn't then u can tell and that's when it's embarissing. that's not really advice because i know it's not good adevice anyway but it's actually true which reminds me, I'm in seventh grade so in sixth grade I wa in Language arts class and we were in a group and it was all boys and there was my cousin and two other boys. And I wore a shirt that had narrow straps ad my cousin saw me push my strap back intoo my shirt and he's like why are you wearing a braw? You don't have anything! And that was embarissing I said shut-up and then I told him that he's stupid to say that infront of two other boys. So my problem is that I have nothing but ur problem is that yo have some stuf but ur embarrest to say u wear a braw when the boys saw it so my story wasn't really helpfull lol.

good advice,THX!

[gurlzrock101]

good advice,THX!

ur welcome

[mileyrocksbigtime]

:)

[Mileyforever556]

Just say how would you feel if I was going up to you saying oh my gosh ehhh you have a flat head and ugly head ehhhhhhh. or something like that . It might change them a little bit.

[gurlzrock101]

To help you with this problem just believe that they're all IDIOTS. No, just kidding. But they are if they make fun of you. You're special and they just can't take it8-)

aww thank you now the special part helps even though u don't know me lol but seriously thanks

[gurlzrock101]

lol sry. im trying hehe. oo maryland. i got relatives there ^^ I've been there. like baltimore and so :P

cool but i hate maryland!! i am 40 minuts away from D.C

[metz-norway]

cool but i hate maryland!! i am 40 minuts away from D.C

lol, well i got relatives rite outside d.c too :P silversprings xD

[ILoveHottPink56]

dont be embarrassed to say you are wearing a bra all girls know that they will have to wear them some day and also guys know trust me!! i always have guys pulling my bra strap!

[gurlzrock101]

dont be embarrassed to say you are wearing a bra all girls know that they will have to wear them some day and also guys know trust me!! i always have guys pulling my bra strap!


yeah they do know but you can always c mine not that i do it on purpose but I wear those shirts ya know but i want a guy friend that won't make fun of me about me having no chest

[pksllayer]

Hate to be a wet blanket but it is unfortunate that most guys tend to look at a woman's hest and then base d on taht form their own impressions of the person and generally speaking it seems society or nature has deemed the non-flat chest to be more attractive so to say or essentialy more "normal" so it'll be hard to find a guy who doesnt comment about you not having a chest unless he's really a nice guy who would like to treat a woman or in this case girls with some respect and dignity. Once again unfortunately due to the nature of our current society these types of guys are few and far between :( i feel for you. Btw there is no "normal" so to speak its just waht society deems to be the Modal trend so dont worry about whether you are flat-chesed or not i'm ure to the guy who you will marry someday, it wont really matter because its your personality and character that hould really count. hope this was remotely helpful and not overly philosophical or critial

[miley-cyrus_fan4ever]

Well. I don't necessarily have a pancake chest trust me. I have developed a lot more and I have a big butt. But I'm proud of these things and I'm happy to say that I really don't care what people think about this stuff. Some guys made fun of me cuz I have to have pads..(for the period thing) and it barely offended me.

[pksllayer]

lol thats a very good stand to take on life

[mileyroxx]

=]

[charmed_4evr]

ye guys always go around annoying girls about bras and stuff but just ignore them and eventually they will stop annoying you

[prettybeth]

ha lol avtually i will! they say it like everyday and the'll be like Anna doesn't have no milk but this girl Nika isn't flat chested and so he'll be like but Niksa does. But she hates when they say that because they will actually ask her got milk? She tells them to shut-up and gave themma look.

those boys are stupid! How old are they?

[prettybeth]

ye guys always go around annoying girls about bras and stuff but just ignore them and eventually they will stop annoying you

I know boys annoy me all the time like this one time my bra strap was hanging down alittle bit and this guy kurtis pulled it and said you have been pimped then I punched him!

[smiley_miley1221]

I would say u are So lucky. im developing (chest) and its creepy, i thought boys would like me less but i dunno if ur right. it hurts when u develope and then when it comes out u have to wear athelte bras and then u can't wear see through shirts! and if u dont like bras (cause they itch) then ....

[tashismashi]

Everyone goes through puberty at different times. Some people are faster than others.

There's no reason to be made fun of, it's not your fault at all. Maybe they're embarrassed of themselves and trying to divert the attention to themselves by making fun of others.

When they do tease you just look at them and say "Soooo what?". They'll won't know what to say and they should back-off.

Anyway, don't take their comments personally - as I said before. They're probably just making fun of others to boost their confidence. Which is a wrong thing to do.

Hope this helps, Tasha :)

[megdolphinlover]

Hate to be a wet blanket but it is unfortunate that most guys tend to look at a woman's hest and then base d on taht form their own impressions of the person and generally speaking it seems society or nature has deemed the non-flat chest to be more attractive so to say or essentialy more "normal" so it'll be hard to find a guy who doesnt comment about you not having a chest unless he's really a nice guy who would like to treat a woman or in this case girls with some respect and dignity. Once again unfortunately due to the nature of our current society these types of guys are few and far between :( i feel for you. Btw there is no "normal" so to speak its just waht society deems to be the Modal trend so dont worry about whether you are flat-chesed or not i'm ure to the guy who you will marry someday, it wont really matter because its your personality and character that hould really count. hope this was remotely helpful and not overly philosophical or critial




hey wet blanket was a idiom word 4 our idiom books in school!!!!!!!!! srry im off topic!!!

[smiley_miley1221]

okay... i try to avoid going shopping with my mom, cause she's looking into buying me a bra.... and it is very freaky. i love her but i need more excuses on what to say. im not really developing and i have two bras, i got them when i was 10 but there kinda small and the straps hang out. My mom would never let me NOT wear a bra. what shoudl i do?
--- needhelp

[charmed_4evr]

okay... i try to avoid going shopping with my mom, cause she's looking into buying me a bra.... and it is very freaky. i love her but i need more excuses on what to say. im not really developing and i have two bras, i got them when i was 10 but there kinda small and the straps hang out. My mom would never let me NOT wear a bra. what shoudl i do?
--- needhelp

just try talking to her but if the bras you already have are too small it proberly means you need a new one

[mileyrocksbigtime]

okay... i try to avoid going shopping with my mom, cause she's looking into buying me a bra.... and it is very freaky. i love her but i need more excuses on what to say. im not really developing and i have two bras, i got them when i was 10 but there kinda small and the straps hang out. My mom would never let me NOT wear a bra. what shoudl i do?
--- needhelp

So your mom is looking into buying you a bra,And you need exuses,Right?
Try telling your mom that your not developing,She can buy you the bras,But don't wear them until you are "Developing".Say "Mom,I don't think that i'm developing yet,So I don't need a bra. you can buy me bras,but I'm not going to wear them until I am developing,And I don't really wanna come with you to go 'Bra Shopping',You know,The emerassment."


♪♥Hope it helps♪♥