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Hannah Montana = Life <3
11-19-2006, 01:50 PM
Ok,my mom works 4 nights a week.She is home on Wednesday,Thursday,and Saturday.Today she went to sleep and well,I am mad at her.This week we have been having arguments like....
1.She didn't pick me up when she promised,2 days in a row.
2.She made me late for choir today.
3.She has been lying to me all month.
what should I do?She keeps on calling me names and blaming me for everything.That I dod not do!

If she is constantly working then maybe you should fight with her. If you barely ever see her then maybe you shouldnt get mad. But it seems like the things she's doin to you really arent fair. so have you tried to talk to her? and be like mom, it really hurt me when you..... or sumthing like that? cuz from what you've said it seems like she's probably stressed out from working so much. and maybe she doesnt even notice what she's doing. i'm definatly not saying its okay for her to treat you like this, because it isnt! i'm just saying that maybe she's so stressed out that she doesnt even notice it. and maybe she needs you to point out to her what shes doing so she can try to stop and fix it.
anyway, im really sorry. i hope this helps!!

xx_mileyrocks_xx
11-19-2006, 03:45 PM
good advice jess.. my mom is always bugging me too.

gurlzrock101
11-19-2006, 04:13 PM
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Some people have lots of stress and take it out on their children and my mom has done that a coupe of times and she knows what she was doing so she appolgized. there can be a lot of reasons for this like if there are any deaths, worrying about anything including you, divorce especially iff she is single but if she is then that is the most common. It does help a lot to tell your mom how you feel but still make it alittle easy for her! And parents try really hard to do everything for you so you know what would also help your mom, you might not like to cook but make dinner for her and clean the kithen. My mom feels more better when we do that and she even told us that. And this will mostt likely relieve the stress that she has because i'm sure that can be why and my parents get sick and tired of being sick and tired especially my mom and if you cook dinner maybe even candles if she's that type of person, try not to give her attitudes, and if you do this she will be less stressed and less tired and soon she will know that you are trying to help her and you really care about her. So show a lot of love every day!! I really hope u get the chance to read this.

Backstroker495
11-19-2006, 04:15 PM
When my mom lets her stress out on me (not that she hits me or anything) she will immediately realize what she did and then she will apologize.

wintergirl
01-03-2009, 07:20 PM
I love my mum a lot I think she did that to me like have a bad argument but that's normal I hate arguments my mum does cleaning clothes make dinner do the housework when she was ill I done a kind thing for her wash dishes I wanted to do housework but I didn't because it's to much for me anyway I don't know if this is a new forum or a old one I just feel like giving advice

hope it works

vanessaroxs14
01-09-2009, 09:48 PM
You have to have a serious conversation with her. Maybe she's jsut trying hard to support you and your lifestyle. I mean she has to pay for everything you own. I hate to say this, but you need to talk back to let her know that you're serious

NancyDrew
01-09-2009, 10:03 PM
Talk to your mom. It's the best thing. She might not realize what's happening.