Moms

[freelelandchapman]

Ok,my mom works 4 nights a week.She is home on Wednesday,Thursday,and Saturday.Today she went to sleep and well,I am mad at her.This week we have been having arguments like....
1.She didn't pick me up when she promised,2 days in a row.
2.She made me late for choir today.
3.She has been lying to me all month.
what should I do?She keeps on calling me names and blaming me for everything.That I dod not do!


I have problems with my mom too...i think every daughter does! She has to sleep...its only natural so dont be mad at her about that.

For number one and two, you need to sit down and talk to her...maybe come up with a schedule that you can put on the fridge or on the door so she knows where, when, and for what she needs to pick you up for....maybe you can carpool with another person in your choir to take you there.

as for number three...you need to talk to her about that too...maybe sit down and talk with her about blaming you before she gets the whole story...if your parents are divorced and you dont see your dad a lot but do sometimes maybe talk to the both of them and maybe live with your dad full time and only see your mom a little bit....and then decide what household is better for you!

[gurlzrock101]

Some people have lots of stress and take it out on their children and my mom has done that a coupe of times and she knows what she was doing so she appolgized. there can be a lot of reasons for this like if there are any deaths, worrying about anything including you, divorce especially iff she is single but if she is then that is the most common. It does help a lot to tell your mom how you feel but still make it alittle easy for her! And parents try really hard to do everything for you so you know what would also help your mom, you might not like to cook but make dinner for her and clean the kithen. My mom feels more better when we do that and she even told us that. And this will mostt likely relieve the stress that she has because i'm sure that can be why and my parents get sick and tired of being sick and tired especially my mom and if you cook dinner maybe even candles if she's that type of person, try not to give her attitudes, and if you do this she will be less stressed and less tired and soon she will know that you are trying to help her and you really care about her. So show a lot of love every day!! I really hope u get the chance to read this.

[MileyCyrus619]

same here...i get in trouble for stuff i didnt do! it makes me just so mad

[Miley98]

Hi That's good advice ppl.

[Miley_roks_my_soks]

:mad: pple say to tell ur mum when u have boy trouble tell ur mum wen u hate ur friends &y tell your mom eve ting i cant because my mum is a teacher at my private skool so i cant tell her any thing and wen my mum and i have a fight i cant talk to my friends about it because tere all her students. wat shood i do?

[gurlzrock101]

:mad: pple say to tell ur mum when u have boy trouble tell ur mum wen u hate ur friends &y tell your mom eve ting i cant because my mum is a teacher at my private skool so i cant tell her any thing and wen my mum and i have a fight i cant talk to my friends about it because tere all her students. wat shood i do?

do you have any other friends that don't have her as a teacher? I don't tell my mom this stuff. i don't know why but i just don't want to. But ya know u don't always have to say their momjs and if ur momm's like just telll me the names!! then say no it's not right since their ur student and this is helping me with out using the names.

[mileycyrusonly]

Thanks,right now she is at work.But now we are sorta' getting along.Yes my parents are divorced,they got divorced when I was 4,6 years later.I haven't seen my dad in about 2 maybe 3 months.I didn't even get to give him his Birthday Card!

[gurlzrock101]

aww!! family questions are always good but sometimes it has to be at the right time

[Jordan_Pruitt_Fan]

I have tons and tons of problems with my mom

[Sydney001]

my mom brings me breakfast every morning in bed, but the bad thing is she eats half of it before she gives it to me it's disgusting she also wakes me up by sticking her finger anywhere she can find, my ear, shoulder, nose anywhereshe can put it to anoy me! i hate it. ARGGGG!!!!!!!!!

[gurlzrock101]

my mom brings me breakfast every morning in bed, but the bad thing is she eats half of it before she gives it to me it's disgusting she also wakes me up by sticking her finger anywhere she can find, my ear, shoulder, nose anywhereshe can put it to anoy me! i hate it. ARGGGG!!!!!!!!!

gesee! try saying MOM STOP!! it's really annoying and just tell her everything that u don't like about what she's doing and u might already have but tell her during dinner or something

[snowpup]

Guys, I know mom's sometimes can give you a hard time, but I promise you some thing; Without them doing the things they do to keep you alive would be so much different if she suddenly stopped. Trust me on this one, I would know. Since my mom hasn't been able to even get out of bed, and after being in the hospital for so long, she can't do anything. My grandpa wakes me up now, which is beyond annoying because he just flicks on the light and tells us to wake up. I would rather have my mom poke me in the ear than to that. And sometimes my grandma forgets to pick me up, which is far worse than being late. Just believe me, your mom loves you more than anything in the world and all she wants is for you to be happy. SO try for a change to help her out sometimes, because if what she does didn't happen anymore you would notice it. Just appreciate her, and she will appreciate you I promise.

[mileyrocksbigtime]

I love my mom,But she works almost everyday,Shes a nurse.
She wakes up at 5:00(or 6 AM) AM then goes to work,Then she comes back at around 9:00 PM,I love her alot. I want to spend more tome with my mom,But shes not always around.Her longest vaction would be 4 days.My mom is off today.One day she even worked on CHRISTMAS!She worked on my birthday,She worked on her birthday ECT.
I can't take it anymore,Its killing me,I miss my mom!
My brother or my dad don't have jobs either.So shes the only person working,So I'm trying to get my bro and my dad to get a job...
But the don't have one :(

[HannahMontanaRocks]

my parents are divorsed and my 2 sisters and i HATE her boyfriend. i have those type of issues 2

[mileyrocksbigtime]

my parents are divorsed and my 2 sisters and i HATE her boyfriend. i have those type of issues 2
Divoresing is a very hard part of life,Try to think about GOOD things,Not bad things.Try thinking of Thanksgiving,Christmas,homework ECT.If you can't stop thinking about the divorse between your parents,Try making a book/scrap book of things to take your mind off of the divorse,And no pics/drawings of your parents.

If you REALLY hate your siters boyfriend...
Everyting you see him run away!!!!

[MILEY L0VER]

i got trouble wit my mom so it just not girls, and my father also.

[pksllayer]

There will always be conflict between ppl and their family embers, in this case their moms but i think the best solutoion to the problem is to really establish a better communication and understanding between mother and child so that the mom knows what the child is going through and waht he or she needs whie at the same time the child is able to understand the motives behind what the mother does. remember communication is really the key here

[mileyroxx]

Awesome advice!

[charmed_4evr]

every one has problems with their mum just try and talk to her

[miley_101]

well first of all there are two ways girls treat there mom in life,they can get along with their mom and be her best friend or they can be mean to her and ignore her and dont listen to her. And here is wat i say, yes she doesnt pick up and makes u late, and lies to u, but see right through it and love her. she loves u. if she didnt she would of left u with ur grandma or relative and went away. or aborted u. she loves u. she might act like it, but she does. and talk to her. telll her wat is bothering u. me and my mama do that all the time. we are best friends. i dont know how i am going to leave her when i go off to college.there is a million things she could be going through. stress because of work, her and ur dad could be fighting nonstop, she might be worried about how she is going to pay off her electricity bill and doesnt have time to get u places. instead of being mad at her love on her. ask her if u can help in any way. even if it means washing the dishes, loading the dishwasher, taking out really old trash, or washing nasty toilets. do it. believe me it will help her and she wil be so thankful and she might not be yelling at u!!