Friends parents got a divorce

[Hannah Montana = Life <3]

I need help my friend's parents got a divorce and i'm her BFFL i wasn't there to help her out what should I do!I feel really bad now so plz help me i've never felt this bad in my life i'm about to cry:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

first, just take a deep breath... it wasnt your fault that her parents got a divorce, just breath. okay so now, why werent you there to help her out? i can almost garuntee that it wasnt because you didnt want to be there... if you guys are bffls then i know that you wanted to be there for her, maybe you just couldnt be at the moment. so let her know that. tell her i wish that i could have been there for you, but i couldnt. tell her that you are there for her now though, and if she ever needs to talk about anything that you will be there. divorces are very hard on kids, so you have to let her know that her bffl is always there for her when shes upset. but even if you couldnt be there for her before, letting her know that your there now will be a big help

sorry it took so long for sumone to get to you!!!

~Hope it helps!

[wintergirl]

yeah it's not your fault tell her you feel awful that you wasn't there to help you and tell her your upset she might feel for sorry for you and you guys are best friends i'm sure she will understand because friends are here for you and they understand you whenever theres problem don't feel bad give her a hug and you will feel better is that good advice you need? :)

[wintergirl]

sorry I mean tell her you feel awful that you wasn't there to help her

[wintergirl]

aww don't feel sad and crying you should be happy because you have a bffl that cares about you and you care about her tell her about how upset you are she will understand

[new_york_girl]

just be there for her now. that is what she needs the most. my parents went throw a divorce when i was dealing with a rough time with friend also too, all i have to say dealing with a divorce with out anyone there to talk to is not fun at all, well for a only child like me. you need someone there you trust to tell all your feelings about the whole thing too. it's really nice to have a friend there for you, make sure you have time to spend with her, buy a bunch of ice cream for a sleep over so you can have a you and your friend night. eat ice cream talk all night watch movies, do what ever to make you both feel welcome with each other. and also let her know that your there for her and always will be.

[NancyDrew]

Be supportive. Just spend time with her and be understanding.

[mcandjbroc]

i come from a divorced fam and i know what it feels like she just really needs someone right now.it will be hard but you can make it hun.

[Jake like pankake(vur8z)]

that sucks
good advice people

[mcandjbroc]

yeah it always sucks.mine divorced when i was like 18 months.so i dont remember much.but it get harder when your older because one minture you with your dad and the next your mom.i live with my dad though and see my mom on saturdays.my mom and i dont get along very well.just help her out,and everything will be ok.:D