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11-05-2006, 04:34 PM
ok well i have a few best friends, mimi, noah, and laura. mimi and noah were going out and had an on and off relationship. now they broke up for good last night and mimi wont stop crying. now noah is going out with laura. im getting stuck in the middle of this all my friends are fighting now because mimi still likes noah but hes going out with my other best friend. all 3 are my friends and they want me to help them but i dont want to get stuck in the middle of this anymore. what should i do?
wow, thats a pretty intesnse situation... the first thing that i'd do it talk to each of them, and tell them that you care about all of them a lot... but that you dont want to get into the middle of this situation. make sure they realize that because they are all your friends, that you cant take a side... you HAVE to stay neutral, cuz you definatly dont want them getting mad at you, that will pull you even more into the middle - so make sure you dont side with anyone. and then, as their friend, you have to make them start to feel better... if you know that noah doesnt like mimi anymore, then tell mimi that she'll find sumone better who really loves her, she just has to be patient. and as far as noah and laura go, make sure they know that they have your "blessing"... and that you arent upset that they are going out.
but the most important thing that you can do in this situation is to NOT take sides!
~Hope it helps!
wow, thats a pretty intesnse situation... the first thing that i'd do it talk to each of them, and tell them that you care about all of them a lot... but that you dont want to get into the middle of this situation. make sure they realize that because they are all your friends, that you cant take a side... you HAVE to stay neutral, cuz you definatly dont want them getting mad at you, that will pull you even more into the middle - so make sure you dont side with anyone. and then, as their friend, you have to make them start to feel better... if you know that noah doesnt like mimi anymore, then tell mimi that she'll find sumone better who really loves her, she just has to be patient. and as far as noah and laura go, make sure they know that they have your "blessing"... and that you arent upset that they are going out.
but the most important thing that you can do in this situation is to NOT take sides!
~Hope it helps!