View Full Version : How do you get guys to notice you?
smarty
11-04-2006, 08:23 AM
How do you get boyz to notice you?I need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Ok I'll tell you the story.I like this guy named Tore.But I don't think he likes me:'( .I want to know if he likes me. How do you ask or get notced??????????
NE ideas plze.:S :S :S :S :S
ok well it all depends how old you are and stuff
but if you like him just become friends
and he might get attached to you and start likeing you
but for now just go up to him in class or something
and be like Hey and start hangin out
MileyFan27
11-08-2006, 12:49 PM
play hard to get..im only 11 and ive had 3 bfs and i got them all by playin hard to get....just be around him and like ignore him my bf once broke up wit me and i was like "ull regret this" the next day i ignored ihm and then he asked me out again the next day lol ... hard to get is the best way so whenever ur around him if he says something to u be like "oh whatd you say?" or "what?" just like pretend you dont even like him
metz-norway
11-08-2006, 02:17 PM
playing hard to get on a guy that doesent like u is highly doubtfull to work. Also thats no certain rule for anyone. For example: If the guy is a little shy, playing hard to get would probably just send way off signals and push him away. To have him notice you, i guess u'll just have to step up and talk to him, if that works out well u're one bit on ur way. I mean if u click and can talk well, i guess u'll soon notice!
MileyFan27
11-08-2006, 02:27 PM
i know but im just saying it worked on all my old bfs cuz no of them liked me.................................lol
xx_mileyrocks_xx
11-10-2006, 06:57 PM
good advice
Smily4life
11-11-2006, 10:07 PM
whatever you do, dont tell him that you like him! Because guys like Mysteries. [Trust me that works!] and the most inportant thing!! BE YOURSELF!! If he doesnt like you, for who you are, he isnt worth your time! Dont try to be something you arent!! Love yourself for who YOU are!!!
Sportchick
11-11-2006, 10:11 PM
good advice Bianca and every1 else
somethin u might not wanna do is tell him u like him i did that to 1 of my best friends last year that i liked and our friendship has not been the same lol so dont tell him u like him see if he can figure it out
MileyCy234
11-15-2006, 06:18 PM
Find the things that he likes and then change your self around that
supersarah089
11-17-2006, 05:06 PM
Does anyone know the couple things that you would know a guy likes you?
rockin_hannah
11-20-2006, 08:39 PM
Find the things that he likes and then change your self around that
I DONT THINK U SHOOD CHANGE YOURSELF TO FIT THE STANDARDS OF A GUY I MEEN IF HE DOESNT LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE THEN YOU SHOULD JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 08:45 PM
ok fill out this form and then I know what advice you need ok
Describe him- (is here like a football player or nerd)
his personality-
how old-
grade-
describe you- like hair color style
kayla_baseball
11-20-2006, 08:47 PM
I DONT THINK U SHOOD CHANGE YOURSELF TO FIT THE STANDARDS OF A GUY I MEEN IF HE DOESNT LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE THEN YOU SHOULD JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I totaly agree!!!!!!!:57:
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 08:50 PM
idont I have thewhole school pretty much have acrush on me where stuff that is cute were makeup do face mask and noxema where mini skirts and like realy cute stuff always wear LOTS of earings and like jewelry never pierce you stomach oh ya and never join a sport that is not like giry guys like girls who aree like High School Cheerleders well this is pretty much what I do Oh be a awesome singeer
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 08:55 PM
oh I only would date guys whoare cute and shop at like abracrombie and hollister oh ya try getting a designer thing likepurses people love those I have 5 a black and a brown coach, a black prada, and 2 loui vertons
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 08:55 PM
oh be Popular like me I have at least 50 guys who like me
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 09:01 PM
What do oyu think of this cheer is it kind of middle schoool though
Spilt the V
(SHOULD WE DO A 3 CLAP)
Dot the I
Curl the C
T-O-R-Y T-O-R-Y
Victory Victory
come on let's here it CCS Spirit
Rebeccal997
11-20-2006, 09:01 PM
oh be Popular like me I have at least 50 guys who like me
being popular is bad, no ofence to you and all. But Even though they get the guys, theu truely don't have any friends. The only thing is to just hagn with him, start to try to act normal around him, and try not to get shakey, he's juts a guy, theres still more fish in the sea that are right for you. So my advice is just hang and start to be friends and soon things will just fall into place how thye're supposed to.:D
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 09:04 PM
you have got to be kiding loloh dont way over 130 pounds well if you way a little mroe make sure you still look skinny
Rebeccal997
11-20-2006, 09:05 PM
you have got to be kiding loloh dont way over 130 pounds well if you way a little mroe make sure you still look skinny
huh? what the heck are you sayin'?
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 09:06 PM
always look awesome
Mitchel_Musso
11-20-2006, 09:06 PM
good advice Bianca and every1 else
somethin u might not wanna do is tell him u like him i did that to 1 of my best friends last year that i liked and our friendship has not been the same lol so dont tell him u like him see if he can figure it out
Yeah I figured that out a couple years ago! I told this guy I liked him and now we NEVER talk as much as we used to! Plus I was told that he called my a "Fat cow" so I am still mad about that! I like his older brother now and my best friends brother
Rebeccal997
11-20-2006, 09:09 PM
always look awesome
nope! you need a guy who likes you from what you are in the inside, not the out. You don't have to be pretty to have a boyfriend, it just matter what's inside of you, in your heart, that's what true love is.
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 09:19 PM
what did you think of the cheer though is it to middle school
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 09:20 PM
well I care about the out side
Mitchel_Musso
11-20-2006, 09:24 PM
dont be fat duh? omg are you
What is the need 4 that question? *Not to be mean though*
Rebeccal997
11-20-2006, 09:32 PM
What is the need 4 that question? *Not to be mean though*
come on, she doesn't understand the true meaning of L-O-V-E, let's go.:|
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 09:34 PM
she must be a nerd or like a compter freakor alot of you and mitchel person I guess your are a cow lol
Rebeccal997
11-20-2006, 09:38 PM
she must be a nerd or like a compter freakor alot of you and mitchel person I guess your are a cow lol
no we're not! We both are very good people inside, anyways I'm not a nerd lol I'm flunkin' in school! Messiest handwiting in thw world!lol. And I barely know anything about computers, my brother does!:lol:
Mitchel_Musso
11-20-2006, 10:06 PM
Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will NEVER hurt me! **Especially if I don't even know the person** LOL!!!!:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: *that is on you!*
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 11:07 PM
if someone calls you just ignore them
Mileyforever556
11-20-2006, 11:08 PM
you made a blend so you know computers
Rebeccal997
11-20-2006, 11:22 PM
well no that doesn't mean that! I know how to make blends! it doesn't mean we're computer freaks/geaks! Wow and I thought you were kinda mean, now you're really mean. You're not caring, respectful, trustworthy, honest, and you unsault other people.
Mileyforever556
11-21-2006, 10:57 AM
Great advice evryone and uit is not nice to berude guys
Rebeccal997
11-21-2006, 05:07 PM
hey gal, I'm only 9 so I don't usually wear make-up. I just wear it for fun and it looks funny cuz it's the creamy kind lol.
Mitchel_Musso
11-21-2006, 05:16 PM
I did not make that! By the way how old are you?
Rebeccal997
11-21-2006, 05:41 PM
I made mine! It got a little crappy when i was trying to save it!
miley32hannah
11-23-2006, 10:23 AM
I did not make that! By the way how old are you?
Do u mean me well i an 10 and korean
Asians rock
miley32hannah
11-23-2006, 10:24 AM
I made mine! It got a little crappy when i was trying to save it!
How'd u make it
pksllayer
11-26-2006, 04:51 PM
i agree asians rock!
Mileyforever556
12-01-2006, 11:43 PM
i dont i think white's rock
miley32hannah
12-02-2006, 09:13 AM
well I care about the out side
it is what the inside that counts
miley32hannah
12-02-2006, 09:16 AM
i dont i think white's rock
we all have differant oppions
Mileygurl245
12-02-2006, 01:18 PM
nope! you need a guy who likes you from what you are in the inside, not the out. You don't have to be pretty to have a boyfriend, it just matter what's inside of you, in your heart, that's what true love is.
I agree but I'm popular!And if the person is ugly i wouldn't go out with him but he needs 2 have a good personality!!I'm not mean though!The guy I like like's me I think and my advice is make him laugh!Be yourself!Lat nite I told him the crazy stuff me and 1 of my friends did at state poms (which was yesterday so we got 2 skip skool but he didn't) and it just made him laugh!Be outgoing!That's what me and my friend were doing and I think he thought I would be fun to be around after I told him the stuff!!By now ur probley wonderin what we did!Well first we went in a skywalk and waved at the ppl driving below us and the Fedex guy waved at me!haha!And then we rode that escalaters!!!!!!!When my friend got 2 the top of the escalater I would get on the bottom so nobody could go between us!Fun times!Anyway just be yourself!
alyson83
12-02-2006, 02:26 PM
ok well it all depends how old you are and stuff
but if you like him just become friends
and he might get attached to you and start likeing you
but for now just go up to him in class or something
and be like Hey and start hangin out
__________________
im only 11 and ive had 3 bfs.Most of them I got by just hanging out with them and becoming friends and we got along great!
smiley_smiley_miley
01-03-2008, 09:48 PM
To get a guy to notice you, you should be every outgoing.
Vanessa Hudgens Fan 11
01-10-2008, 01:23 AM
ok well it all depends how old you are and stuff
but if you like him just become friends
and he might get attached to you and start likeing you
but for now just go up to him in class or something
and be like Hey and start hangin out
__________________
im only 11 and ive had 3 bfs.Most of them I got by just hanging out with them and becoming friends and we got along great!
Well thats how i got my crush to like me and now we have been going out for 6 mounts
lulukita2802
01-10-2008, 01:49 AM
lol. well firstly u should get a guy to like u for who u are inside and not the way u are outside. It is just not worth having a guy that likes u just becuase u are pretty, sexy, or hot. As people said before try to be outgoing and not be shy all the time. There are two types of guy, the shy one and the not so shy one. If the guy is shy u should not play hard to get because there will be little chance that the guy will notice u. If the guy is not shy play a little hard to get because guys like that for some weird reason. And u can put the icing on the cake if u walk past a guy and just wink at them. The guy willl def notice u for sure if u do that. oh and the most important thing that u shouldn't doo is tell a guy u like him. This is a big no. A big no.
indianrockyeah
01-11-2008, 04:23 PM
i am just going to be truthful, most guys go for looks, but the right guys go for you personality....just be yourself, and don't change of be anything your not that is just wrong. if a guy doesn't notice you, he isn't worth it or probably is just blind, but will soon grow up and notice what he missed and then come to your side just remember it takes time for guys to mature and depending on how old you are, they probably have not reached puberty yet
Mnkygrl957
01-11-2008, 09:38 PM
well i am 11 and ive had like 7 bfs and I always just become friends and let it buid so just let shape up by itself!!!
xo_hannah_fan1_xo
01-11-2008, 11:25 PM
OMG! I'm in the SAME situation as you! I have been crushing hard on this guy for like, 5 months! What I have been doing is building up our friendship. Now everytime he says something funny, he always looks at me and smiles! Also, once you think he likes you back, ask one of your friends who knows this guy really well and have them talk to him and see if he likes anyone. That's what I'm doing and it's working!! I think he likes me! So give it a shot!
actually i think u shud be urself
i mean i recently m gonna get a bf cuz i know some1 who like me
lol
cant wait till he asks me out
ttly_miley
01-12-2008, 07:29 AM
well i'd start out by being myself, getting to know the guy better.
then when you're friends, if you really like him {personality and everything else},
you could possibly make the first move.
if you don't want to do that, try hanging out with the guy,
and be yourself.
usually, strong friendships grow into relationships.
if you find out he's mean, or a jerk or anything :P, no matter how
cute he is, you should forget about it. xD
x3Meghan ily
01-12-2008, 11:04 AM
be. your. self.
and show the guy(s)
you like to have fun or
doing anything.
show them that you are up for anything.
if you are, i am but idk how you are.
but get to be close friends with them.
let you grow on him, he
will prob end up likeing you.
idk for sure, but it worked for me :]
IngridElisabeth
01-13-2008, 05:08 AM
the most importaint is that
be youreself. No matter what.
Try to make a friendship with him.
And be nice, try to find out
if he is a jerk, or a boy
that really do cares about friendships
.
like Bee said, if he is mean or a jerk, but super cute.
U should forget about him..
Cause inside is what matters the most xD
but hey, I know the outside matters too :P
and smarty, arent u supposed to take away the useranme in the Quote.
Sorry, If I'm wrong!
x3Meghan ily
01-13-2008, 01:52 PM
oh I only would date guys whoare cute and shop at like abracrombie and hollister oh ya try getting a designer thing likepurses people love those I have 5 a black and a brown coach, a black prada, and 2 loui vertons
you dont have those deisgner purses,
cuase if you did you would have spelled them right.
all the BOLDED stuff is spelt wrong,
and if you like wore it all the time you would know how to spell it.
and purses dont matter to guys, and neither do designers,
not very good advice sry.
oh be Popular like me I have at least 50 guys who like me
yeah, being a sl*tty is never a good thing.
being popular to get a guy is sl*tty.
and you could be lying.
and ughh you dont have to be popular to get a guy
alot of guys hate stuck up wh*res,
no not all popular girls are like that,
but MOST smoke/drink and fool around.
sryyy but that is the truth.
What do oyu think of this cheer is it kind of middle schoool though
Spilt the V
(SHOULD WE DO A 3 CLAP)
Dot the I
Curl the C
T-O-R-Y T-O-R-Y
Victory Victory
come on let's here it CCS Spirit
no offense but i did that cheer
when i was 5 cheerleading.
Follow Ingrid and Bee's advice :]
it is very good :]
IngridElisabeth
01-13-2008, 04:43 PM
Thaaanks, ^^
that was a big compliment for me, cause I suck at advices .. lol :P
ttly_miley
01-13-2008, 06:58 PM
Follow Ingrid and Bee's advice :]
it is very good :]
thanks. xD
oh and i have one more thing to say..
i agree with Meghan, you don't have to be popular for guys to like you.
you don't even have to be girly.
you just gotta be you.
besides, if you act differently than who you really are,
he might fall for that personality,
but that won't be the real you that he likes,
so it would actually be an awkward relationship. :P
smile4milez96
01-13-2008, 07:51 PM
whatever you do, dont tell him that you like him! Because guys like Mysteries. [Trust me that works!] and the most inportant thing!! BE YOURSELF!! If he doesnt like you, for who you are, he isnt worth your time! Dont try to be something you arent!! Love yourself for who YOU are!!!
Good advice..................except for don't tell him you like him part, cause most guys like Brave girls and most of the time the guy is afraid you dont like him(if he does like you) and they dont want to tell you cause their afraid, and its best if your the one who gets the guts first! You can be mysterious and be brave by telling them and still act all normal but like treat him like a friend, and then things might fall into place! Most guys like honest/brave girls it. I mean being 100% mysterious might do nothing. Cause being brave/mysterious lets them know so they wont ignore and think "I have no chance with her, she doesn't even notice me!" so yeah, I mean I eventually tell mine. Thats just my opinion. But I could be wrong but be yourself(I know everyone says that), cause if you be someone else you might actually be with him and then your stuck as someone else for the rest of the relationship! So if he doesnt like you for you hes not the one, it might make you sad that he doesn't like you but always say to yourself that "I'll find someone that likes me for me, not for what I have, or who I know, and how I look .But for me and who I truly am!", so never change for your crush be your self and you'll find the one, and at the end of each day you know he likes you for you!
'Cause I'm kinda in the same situation! Just Stay Strong!
Hope My Advice is Good!
Good Luck!
smile4milez96
MCHM89
01-14-2008, 05:46 PM
Coming from a guy:
If you are into the same kind of things as he is- he will notice
A girl that can get all dressed up and look gorgeous-he'll notice
A girl he can bring around his "boys"- he'll notice
Laughing, smiling, talking- he'll notice
and all these girls saying to change yourself... DONT! guys like girls that will be themself and not 'show off' to get our attention. Another one for me is being spoiled. You dont really need the biggest and best thing out there. A girl that I had tons of fun with and wore clothes that werent from Abercrombie/Hollister/American Eagle/The North Face or a girl who was a very preppy girl and snobby. I would pick the girl that wasn't spoiled and a snob and i know some guys who would say the same thing. If you and him get in a fight dont worry. I've gotten into fights with this girl that is my friend and it builds the relationship into something bigger and greater than any relationship.
EDIT: having D & G, LV, and Coach purses wont get you a boyfriend any easier. Most of the girls that have them are stuck up and guys AND girls dont want to be around them. Popular doesnt make you get more guys either, its just a label. When I was that age I used to think girls that werent popular or the cheerleader/sports type weren't attractive but I was wrong. Some of the coolest girls I have ever met are skater/snowboarders/punk rock. Don't judge someone by their appearance. The personality is an amazing trait and if you dont notice it you could be missing out on someone amazing....
smile4milez96
01-14-2008, 06:19 PM
Wow good advice!
MCHM89
01-14-2008, 09:26 PM
If that was for me no problem just trying to help you all out. I had enough relationship problems when I was your alls age.
Wow good advice!
smile4milez96
01-14-2008, 09:59 PM
If that was for me no problem just trying to help you all out. I had enough relationship problems when I was your alls age.
yeah girls always talk about these things I wonder if guys do?
MCHM89
01-14-2008, 11:50 PM
Not really. Guys talk about getting stuck in the "friend zone." This is the situation in which a guy is so nice to you as is there for you through everything such as break ups, friend getting a new girlfriend. Thus, girls consider guys in this position in the 'friend zone.' It sucks for guys...and I happen to be in one right now but when it comes down to it...The girl I have feelings for is also one of my best friends and I value our friendship too much to try and begin a relationship with her because she is everything to me and I would HATE to lose her as a friend. Thats basically the only thing 19 year old college guys go through...
Whats your opinion on that? Guys worry a lot less than girls? haha
yeah girls always talk about these things I wonder if guys do?
isthemusicinyou?
01-15-2008, 04:23 AM
Not really. Guys talk about getting stuck in the "friend zone." This is the situation in which a guy is so nice to you as is there for you through everything such as break ups, friend getting a new girlfriend. Thus, girls consider guys in this position in the 'friend zone.' It sucks for guys...and I happen to be in one right now but when it comes down to it...The girl I have feelings for is also one of my best friends and I value our friendship too much to try and begin a relationship with her because she is everything to me and I would HATE to lose her as a friend. Thats basically the only thing 19 year old college guys go through...
Whats your opinion on that? Guys worry a lot less than girls? haha
Yep that does suck when your really good friends and don't want to ruin the relationship. Also if you go out with one of your best friends that's in all your classes and then you break up...all the awkward moments, especially if they sit close or worse next to you.
MCHM89
01-15-2008, 10:51 AM
I'm in college and she's at home and there is a 3 hour distance between us until I come home for breaks and stuff so I wouldn't have the awkward moments. I also value our friendship more than any relationship ever.
Yep that does suck when your really good friends and don't want to ruin the relationship. Also if you go out with one of your best friends that's in all your classes and then you break up...all the awkward moments, especially if they sit close or worse next to you.
smile4milez96
01-15-2008, 04:47 PM
Not really. Guys talk about getting stuck in the "friend zone." This is the situation in which a guy is so nice to you as is there for you through everything such as break ups, friend getting a new girlfriend. Thus, girls consider guys in this position in the 'friend zone.' It sucks for guys...and I happen to be in one right now but when it comes down to it...The girl I have feelings for is also one of my best friends and I value our friendship too much to try and begin a relationship with her because she is everything to me and I would HATE to lose her as a friend. Thats basically the only thing 19 year old college guys go through...
Whats your opinion on that? Guys worry a lot less than girls? haha
I always thought guys had less to worry than girls on this subject! Well, I was sorta(45%) in that same situation except im a girl lol. Well me and Jacob are like BFFs and I had a crush on him and I told him i liked him and we stayed friends that was 2 years ago. So if they were really your friend they'll stick with you no matter what! Thats what I truly think. But just go with what you think and like how long you've known her this is coming from an 11 year old Girl! So you might say I don't understand but kids go through more than you think!
MCHM89
01-15-2008, 05:04 PM
Oh no haha. I'm not saying she isnt my friend still. I'm saying our friendship means more and so much stronger than a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship could ever mean. I dont need advice on it. I'm the type of guy that will be there for every girl he knows through everything and help them through the hardest times even if it means staying single for a looong time. I Love to see everyone around me happy and try the best I can to make them stay happy or cheer them up.
I always thought guys had less to worry than girls on this subject! Well, I was sorta(45%) in that same situation except im a girl lol. Well me and Jacob are like BFFs and I had a crush on him and I told him i liked him and we stayed friends that was 2 years ago. So if they were really your friend they'll stick with you no matter what! Thats what I truly think. But just go with what you think and like how long you've known her this is coming from an 11 year old Girl! So you might say I don't understand but kids go through more than you think!
smile4milez96
01-15-2008, 05:26 PM
Oh no haha. I'm not saying she isnt my friend still. I'm saying our friendship means more and so much stronger than a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship could ever mean. I dont need advice on it. I'm the type of guy that will be there for every girl he knows through everything and help them through the hardest times even if it means staying single for a looong time. I Love to see everyone around me happy and try the best I can to make them stay happy or cheer them up.
Ohhhhhhhh...................................
SrfrHrlyGrlx3
01-15-2008, 06:07 PM
First you always have to get to know him. If you are good friends then it should fall in place.
SrfrHrlyGrlx3
01-15-2008, 06:10 PM
I DONT THINK U SHOOD CHANGE YOURSELF TO FIT THE STANDARDS OF A GUY I MEEN IF HE DOESNT LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE THEN YOU SHOULD JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She is right. i agree.
isthemusicinyou?
01-16-2008, 02:54 AM
I think they meant find alike interests. Maybe you both are Miley Cyrus fans? :lol:
shaun
01-16-2008, 10:37 AM
Coming from a guy:
If you are into the same kind of things as he is- he will notice
A girl that can get all dressed up and look gorgeous-he'll notice
A girl he can bring around his "boys"- he'll notice
Laughing, smiling, talking- he'll notice
and all these girls saying to change yourself... DONT! guys like girls that will be themself and not 'show off' to get our attention. Another one for me is being spoiled. You dont really need the biggest and best thing out there. A girl that I had tons of fun with and wore clothes that werent from Abercrombie/Hollister/American Eagle/The North Face or a girl who was a very preppy girl and snobby. I would pick the girl that wasn't spoiled and a snob and i know some guys who would say the same thing. If you and him get in a fight dont worry. I've gotten into fights with this girl that is my friend and it builds the relationship into something bigger and greater than any relationship.
EDIT: having D & G, LV, and Coach purses wont get you a boyfriend any easier. Most of the girls that have them are stuck up and guys AND girls dont want to be around them. Popular doesnt make you get more guys either, its just a label. When I was that age I used to think girls that werent popular or the cheerleader/sports type weren't attractive but I was wrong. Some of the coolest girls I have ever met are skater/snowboarders/punk rock. Don't judge someone by their appearance. The personality is an amazing trait and if you dont notice it you could be missing out on someone amazing....
^^^^^^^^^ I agree......most of us lads dont like girls who change them selfs and show off for are attention....i like girls who are themselfs...looks dont matter to me because its what is inside that counts and not on the out side.....and to get this guy to notice you....well like some people on here sed be yourself and just talk to him.....become mates and then what ever happens...happens.....hope this as helped in some way..... :)
Baby Vanessa
01-26-2008, 12:34 PM
i just be mi self soemtimes i play hard 2 get but most likely just be your self
[[ . aye bay bay . ]]
01-26-2008, 06:19 PM
wel; i kno a lot of ppl dont like this advice; but...it works 4 me; i b myself; cuz lyke; i jus b me; or i scream a lot...cuz i get noticed that way; cuz lyke im not that daring; && i hate sports...lolz. so lyke; i scream a lot during pe; and in drama class; and lyke...yah. i dont do it on purpose tho; i was jus born to scream; so lyke i mostly b myself; but lyke...my closest boy frend is lyke my best frend; but i dont totally like him as a crush; i jus like him as a really close frend and hes cute and everything; but like..we dont like each other cuz we dont hav nething in common...lyke i used to do balet; he dos footbal; he was a mvp in soccer for 6 years; and i cud never thro or catch or kik a bal; hes tal; im short; lol; and im loud and out there; hes mor shy and not as talkative (almost all boys r so lyke yah) but wer both flirty lol! so lyke che. he notices wen ppl changes and he hates that. && he likes this other new girl at skool; she doest lyke him; but he was planing 2 ask her out; but she was only gona go out w/ him to try to make me jealous. cuz she thinks i lyke him; but i dont; so then he forgot about her cuz she tried to b something she wasnt and it totally didnt work. so lyke b urself eventho it can sometimes b hard....yupyup.
Joshrzmeup
02-08-2008, 11:35 PM
Look, i'm 23, so I know about Life and guys and how to get them to notice you.
First - be yourself! Don't change your clothes or attitude or likes/dislikes just for a guy, you want him to like YOU, not somebody you are pretending to be. If you change, it could lead you down a path you don't want to go.
Second - don't play hard to get. Some guys might like it, but chances are, it might lose you the guy if he thinks you aren't interested. It depends on the guy. Take the risk at your own risk.
Just start by maybe going up to him in Class and saying 'hi', or if he doesn't really know you, introduce yourself to him.
Or if he's reading something, ask him about it and it'll at least get you talking.
Take some action, he'll like that. If you like him, then do something about it.
And do let us know how it works out! :)
HannahMontanaFan9463
02-12-2008, 01:55 PM
Okay, so I like this guy too. We're pretty much in the same situation.
So just try and be yourself, and build a strong friendship with him. I bet you he likes you too! :) That's what I'm doing with my crush. We've been texting eachother for a few days and you never know, he might like you too!
Purple_Panda
02-12-2008, 02:46 PM
Well, maybe he doesn't like you. Become his friend and if you really like him, just let him like other girls. Understand that he may not be attracted to you like you are.
And then think about it. Do you like him because he is popular and sporty when you are not? Or is it agonizing and you like him because you really do?
Talk to him. He is more likely to react in a better way than if he hears it as a rumor that you told your friend who told a person who told his friend who told him.
mileycyrusrox454
02-13-2008, 05:17 PM
I'm not sure but DON'T
annoy him. Don't talk to people when hes around them or always
talk t him. I like a guy and my friend likes him, too. She tells
him everythin and stuff like that and just talks to him. He gets
overly annoyed and rolls his eyes... he might like me :)
Fire lion dude
03-03-2008, 01:29 PM
i dont i think white's rock
rascist
and can you stop being so obsessed with yourself
god WTF MAN
ok well carrying on
you should become his frend first, and build your relationship together
and see how things work out
you know wen the time is right to tell him how you feel
lulukita2802
03-04-2008, 12:30 AM
^^^^ i totally agree with everything u say well except for the racist part.
mileycyrusisluv
03-04-2008, 05:15 PM
just talk to them!
calipunkerz
03-04-2008, 06:03 PM
Just start talking to hime but remember to be yourself and not pretend, it's the most important. If he doesn't like you he's not worth it
SmileyMiley11
03-04-2008, 09:17 PM
Great Advice guys
cookie monster
03-08-2008, 05:39 PM
become friends with them, talk to them...get ot know them... [:
MileyFanForev1
03-17-2008, 08:40 PM
It all depends on how you feel about him. Is it a real love, or is it the kind of love where you're like: "OMG! HE'S SOOO CUTE! CAN YOU BELIEVE HOW CUTE HE IS? LOOK HOW CUTE HE IS!"? If it's real love, definetly confront him. Tell him, "Don't make fun of me or anything, but I like you," If he does like you, he'll smile. If not, he'll um...say: "Sorry, but, I don't like you". If it turns out that he doesn't like you, don't sweat it. Just go on. There must be like 345,000 other guys in the U.S. Just an estimate though.
If it's the crazy kind of pshyco love, I suggest you secretly love him. Take pics of him when he doesn't know your there. Put them up in your locker. Write love notes about him and then tear them up and throw them away so he doesn't see. Have fun with it. Don't go phsyco and kill him if he doesn't like you though.
Peace out!:03:
rqlguevarra
05-05-2008, 04:41 AM
The best way to be recognize, gives him a sweet smile whenever you see him.
SmileyMiley11
05-05-2008, 11:22 AM
It all depends on how you feel about him. Is it a real love, or is it the kind of love where you're like: "OMG! HE'S SOOO CUTE! CAN YOU BELIEVE HOW CUTE HE IS? LOOK HOW CUTE HE IS!"? If it's real love, definetly confront him. Tell him, "Don't make fun of me or anything, but I like you," If he does like you, he'll smile. If not, he'll um...say: "Sorry, but, I don't like you". If it turns out that he doesn't like you, don't sweat it. Just go on. There must be like 345,000 other guys in the U.S. Just an estimate though.
If it's the crazy kind of pshyco love, I suggest you secretly love him. Take pics of him when he doesn't know your there. Put them up in your locker. Write love notes about him and then tear them up and throw them away so he doesn't see. Have fun with it. Don't go phsyco and kill him if he doesn't like you though.
Peace out!:03:
Take pictures of him???
Do people really do that?
Destiny9910
05-05-2008, 09:05 PM
BE YOURSLEF< IT WORKS!!!!!
Off topic:
click on my picture to read my ""MMW Talk! Session 1- learn a lessom"
mileyboo897
05-06-2008, 03:25 AM
I'm not exactly one to talk when it comes to relationships. BUt, I've been with my boyfriend for about a month an a half now and we're going pretty strong.
Be yourself, is the number one rule.
Don't even change yourself just for a guy. Because he's going to make you change, he's not worth it.
IT doesn't matter if you're drop dead gorgeous.
He shouldn't care what you look like (well he should sometimes but..not alot).
He should care about your personality.
I'm not the prettiest girl on the planet.
I admit that.
BUt once my boyfriend started ot know me, he saw through the imperfections I ahev on the outside.
I'm a dork.
I'm a nerd.
And i've got the best boyfriend ever.
SO it doesnt matter what you look like.
Or if you have designer purses.
He should like you for you are.
SmileyMiley11
05-07-2008, 11:55 AM
^ That is some of the best advice I've ever heard ;)
xCalista♥
05-07-2008, 12:36 PM
I agree that you shouldn't change yourself to be with a guy you like.
If he doesn't like you for being you he's not worth it! (:
Just talk to him and become friends, then just send subtle hints to him you like him, or if you're confident enough just tell him you like him. =]
Alina
05-08-2008, 12:29 AM
be who you are. if you need to change yourself for him, he probably doesn't like you. decent boys like a girl who is herself.
xxdreamer♥hannaxx
05-08-2008, 08:24 PM
ok first NEVER change for a guy, become friends
with him and get to know him first, then youll
figure out what to do
vBulletin® v3.8.4, Copyright ©2000-2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.