Re: I am in need of help....!

[Absolute_Lovex3]

Okay,
So there is this guy that I like. He is really cute and awesome at singing, but not just that, he has an AWESOME personality!! I love it! He is nice, funny, sweet and everything! But he likes someone else I know, she is really cool and pretty too. I think they went out and stuff, but im not sure. What should I do because that girl likes him to and I think they might go out again?!?!?:|

-Confused

Dear Confused,
Seems like your really into this guy! :D
Well, you can't break up their love so whats the next best thing? Friendship.
I'm sure if you start having conversations with him, and hang out with him you will soon see a beautiful friendship! Maybe if he's not in love with anyone after a while you could even make the move if you think it's the right time!
But, for now if you really do like this dude then work on a friendship. Like..ask him what he likes and sports he plays, stuff like that!

[mileyroxx]

=] Ooohh...

[mileyrocks101]

thats good advice

[Baby Vanessa]

Great Advice

[OliviaCartwright]

i kinda have an idea. this is kinda unusual advice but i'll give it a try.

1.) if you think that this girl likes him and you're friends or you kinda have talked b4 just go ask her. Ask her if she can keep a secret 1st though. Ask her if she likes him. Then if she says no she might want to keep it a secret or she really doen't like him. Well tell her you like him and say if you like him go for it. Also tell her that he likes you if you're absolutely sure he does. B/c if they're meant to be then there's another guy for you. plus the relationship will probaly end soon. So just give it sometime.

2.)Another thing you could do is make the 1st move b4 the other girl. Remember guys love confidence and if tell him you like him he might actually say yes. If he doesn't you know it's not meant to be or he just needs some space b/c ppl usually don't just go up to him and do that everyday unless he's hot. LoL

3.)Also you could wait about a week or so and just see what happens. But i think you should make the 1st move. You can't just sit around waiting for him to ask him out. Also don't try to tell him through notes or friends. Go face to face with him. Hope this helps. LoL

[tashismashi]

Make yourself stand out - take risks.

You said he likes singing. Maybe you could join a choir or sing in a school production.

But don't try and be something your not. Be yourself and standout at the same time - he's sure to notice you.

Complement him, and talk to him - but don't seem desperate.

If he is going out with this other girl just be friends with him.

Goodluck and I hope everything goes well - Tasha :)