Friends Fighting

[Absolute_Lovex3]

me and my friends fight alot .plus one time we almost well.... didnt become bffs any more!!!what do i do?

Well, friends do fight alot :( My friends who have been friends with each other since preschool used to fight so much! They fought alot in seventh grade, and they told me they were just getting sick of each other after all these years. Friends do get on other friends nerves! Let them each find their space and maybe have a little chit chat with the both of them, or if it's more than two friends you can still just all get together and talk this out. Maybe they just needs some time alone for a while.

[greaser453]

Yeah my friend Kristopher and my other friend Jordan are fighting because at school Jordan is always insulting Kris like "What's up dork" and so Kris gets mad. And now they won't talk to each other. Well they do but they cuzz at each other. I want them to be friends again so we can all be pals again.

What should I do? :'(

[mileysbestpal164]

Yeah my friend Kristopher and my other friend Jordan are fighting because at school Jordan is always insulting Kris like "What's up dork" and so Kris gets mad. And now they won't talk to each other. Well they do but they cuzz at each other. I want them to be friends again so we can all be pals again.

What should I do? :'(

fighting:mad: goes on in everyones life we all just need to learn how to sort it all out and talk about things:| and not get angry maybe u can sit the 2 of them down and have a conversation wit all of them crack a couple of jokes and make them laugh to ease the tention:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:usually do this after skool or during lunch

[greaser453]

fighting:mad: goes on in everyones life we all just need to learn how to sort it all out and talk about things:| and not get angry maybe u can sit the 2 of them down and have a conversation wit all of them crack a couple of jokes and make them laugh to ease the tention:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:usually do this after skool or during lunch

Thanx :D I'll get back to ya and see if your advice worked ;)

[SupaStaRrMiley92]

Yeah. I sort of have friend problems, too.
Well, at my school we're allowed to dress up a whole day for Halloween and so my 2 friends and I wanted to have coordinating costumes. One of them originally had the idea w/me that it would just be us 2 but her and the other friend of mine are OBSESSED w/eachother it seems. Well, they wanted to be the flintstones (ewe) and so they picked the two best ones (which i might have dressed up as) and they're like "well you can be the baby, then." They're giving me the worst choices out of everything that we choose to do and I feel like a third wheel:'( . I'm so sick of this! And the worst thing is, whenever I tell them what they do and how I feel about it they're always like, "no, we're not. everything isn't always about you 24/7" I can't keep going along w/everything that they do. What should I do to make them understand how I feel??

[i wuv miley cyrus]

Well, friends do fight alot :( My friends who have been friends with each other since preschool used to fight so much! They fought alot in seventh grade, and they told me they were just getting sick of each other after all these years. Friends do get on other friends nerves! Let them each find their space and maybe have a little chit chat with the both of them, or if it's more than two friends you can still just all get together and talk this out. Maybe they just needs some time alone for a while.

Great advice!

[xx_mileyrocks_xx]

Great advice!


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[i wuv miley cyrus]

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[pksllayer]

Yeah. I sort of have friend problems, too.
Well, at my school we're allowed to dress up a whole day for Halloween and so my 2 friends and I wanted to have coordinating costumes. One of them originally had the idea w/me that it would just be us 2 but her and the other friend of mine are OBSESSED w/eachother it seems. Well, they wanted to be the flintstones (ewe) and so they picked the two best ones (which i might have dressed up as) and they're like "well you can be the baby, then." They're giving me the worst choices out of everything that we choose to do and I feel like a third wheel:'( . I'm so sick of this! And the worst thing is, whenever I tell them what they do and how I feel about it they're always like, "no, we're not. everything isn't always about you 24/7" I can't keep going along w/everything that they do. What should I do to make them understand how I feel??

I this situation the best possible approach should be to tell it to them straight so that they are aware of the stance that you have about their sidelining of you. With out sounding like you are attacking them or offeding them. IF its possible do rbing up some cases where you have given wayt what they want and tell them that in any realtionship there has to be a series of gives and takes and that you have given them a lot and have had little in return and would like to have a little more respect and tell them that everything is not about them 24/7 . If they cannont treat you with the decency and respect that any friend derserves then they dont deserve to be called friends i think.
Just giving my 2 cents worth hope its useful

[gangstajx2]

Ive been through friend conflicts too the best way to look at it is that everyone is gonna fight at times, and we cant help it, but when we show that we care about those people they appreciate us more, and rely on us, show that you really care about their interests. If they are your friends they will understand how you feel and be able to listen to you, be yourself, dont ever change , cuz once you do, its hard to get back that great person you once were, be yourself, your friends will respect you

[Smily4life]

if you guys fight alot. then that means you guys are totally different. but i am way, that might not be a good thing for you. Try spreading out at your school. make an effort to talk to different people.

[Joshrzmeup]

Fighting is part of life and part of growing up. You'll have lots of fights with friends, I have, believe me.
But as you get older, you change as you begin to figure out who you are and what your values are and your friends are changing too, being a teenager is tough, no one ever said it was easy. Space can be good, just cool for a week or so, but don't fret, good friends always come back to you. You just need time to adjust.
You might find yourselves growing apart too as you get older, and it's natural. It's not something you'll like but it's life.

Bottom line: give space now and then, be forgiving during your tough years, and just know that no matter what, your friends will still be there for you.