Boy Advice

[smarty]

ok, heres the deal...
>>Heres the basic need to know stuff before i can tell you my situation...
>im in 8th grade now
>im a girl
>Brandon is the guy i like [just to let you know when i refer to him in the story]
>i act in local plays

>>Storrrry Time...

ok, last year had been the 3rd year ive been liking Brandon [since 4th grade] i mean really really liked him, and when i was at play tryouts i saw brandon there, and i was like woah, i didnt knew he did plays, so i went over and talked to him! it ended up, we both made the play! yay us!:)) lol:lol: anyways, we sat together and practices and talked, then i found out one of my friends that didnt know i liked him, said since you're doing the play with him, can you try to get me hooked up with him? i didnt think brandon liked me so i said yes. well, they went out for a few weeks, then he broke up with her, and i asked him why? he said i like another girl! i said OMG! who? he said i cant tell you right now im not sure that she likes me? so i was like crappp! then another guy i sorta liked but wasnt all in love with asked me out, i figured i needed to move on, so i said yes! brandon came up to me at practice the next day and put his arm around me! :07: and Bailey[another kid in the play] always teased me and brandon about going out and he started sayin aww yall make a cute couple and i said uhh NO! i have a bf! then brandon said WHAT!? and went off... i ran after him and said what is your prob? he said i was gonna frickin ask you out! i said i didnt think you liked me... he said well, i didnt know if you liked me either?? i said im sorry, i dont want to be mean to Casey [my bf at the time] well, he somehow bragged me in to it, i broke up with Casey, and started goin out with Brandon!!!! :07: :D :) lol! anyways, we went out for almost 2 months, then we got invited to a party, he asked abother girl to dance, so i broke up with him! shows how nice he was! but i still liked him, a lot!!! then 1 month later, we were in another play, we ended up getting back together! :07: :01: :D :) and after about 2 1/2 months he started actin really rude to me and stuff! i dont know really how to explain it but, yea..then i had a pageant to go to, he came with me and was nice there, the day we got back he started acting horrible ot me again!!! i got really mad, but thankfully i had my friends to help me, i really truely loved him, and wanted to work things out, but 3 days before it would have been 3 months, he broke up with me, wouldnt tell me why, wouldnt tell my friends why, wouldnt even tell his mom, dad, or brothers why!!:'( :'( then a few weeks later, i decided i need to move on when another Brandon [Brandon B] asked me out! i was like ok! he was really nice, then Brandon[the 1st one] found out and asked out every girl he could think of that night and they all said NO! i thought it was kinda funny, then the next day he ASKED OUT MY BFF!!!! i was like no way! and she said yes! i got really mad cuz that morning she was sayin she hated his guts!!! i got super mad at both of them, then they told BrandonB all these lies about me! OMG! how rude! then he broke up with me! grrrr:mad: i was furious! then my bff's mom makes her break up with him cuz it ruined our friendship! heres the sad part, its been 2 months since he broke up with me, hes had 3 gfs and hes treated them all badly too! BUT i still like him! i dont know what to do, i would never go back out with him because he treated me so badly, but i have noo clue what to do! i think im in love with him! idk! im so confused?! what should i do?:( :|

Woah this looks like you are really haing guy
problems.:o Well what I think you should do first is forget
about both Brandons because no guy should never i repete
NEVER treat his girlfriend like that.;) A boyfriend should treat
his gal with respect and honesty:01: So what I think you should do is
just don't get into the dating scene yet if a guy asks you out just say
no for now then just stay really close friends so you can see if he is that
right guy for you. Trust me someone is out there that will treat you right.
I just know it. So keep your eyes open and your dreams up!:D

[izzybella]

Yeeah i totally agree!

[miji.hannahmontana]

Great advice!!

[miley_fan823]

Definitley.
If a guy doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated, he's not worth waiting for, nor going out with.
A simple phrase to live by lol :lol:!
Good Luck!! :)

[boo~licious]

omg can some one help me plz i really need help1!!!?? plz plz plz ok here it is!!
ok well i am in the the 5th grade and i like this guy i no im young but well this guy at school cory he was new for like a long time the first day he went to school i am like ewwwww he is so so ugly well i started liking him well cory never talked to me so i never talked to him so i got my friend amber to ask him out for me so we went out like 1 or 2 weeks he is so cute well here is the prob me and him never talk to each other but like after a few days he broke up cause he sed he was going out with someone that was 14 and hes only 12 and so i never asked him out again but then i asked my friend to ask him after like a long long times he sed he will after he breaks up with his gf so i sed ok and this girl in his class sed he wasnt even going out with this girl that he was lying i sed oh so now i am really shy so my cousin gave me his number so i called him and he was grounded but then he moved to his real mom cause he was living with his step mother so i asked my sister kayla to call and see if he was there and she sed no he moved to his mothers and before she hung up with his step mom i told my sis to ask her what was his number but she sed she forgot so she didnt ask so i need someone plz to call his step mother and ask if she noes his numbe some one eney one plz do that for me plz if you will call pm me and ill give you her number so like i sed need someone to call her and see if she noes corys number plz and think you!!!

[jusT jaKe]

To the person who needs advice. Coming from a guy, you really shouldn't ever let anyone treat you like that, that's extremely rude and there's absolutely no reason to be in a relationship like that. I really don't know what to tell you since you seem to still care about him but I really hope it turns out for the best.

[flower1]

Woah this looks like you are really haing guy
problems.:o Well what I think you should do first is forget
about both Brandons because no guy should never i repete
NEVER treat his girlfriend like that.;) A boyfriend should treat
his gal with respect and honesty:01: So what I think you should do is
just don't get into the dating scene yet if a guy asks you out just say
no for now then just stay really close friends so you can see if he is that
right guy for you. Trust me someone is out there that will treat you right.
I just know it. So keep your eyes open and your dreams up!:D
OMG! that player! Move on, aand never date another brandon!:28: Good advice!

[lulukita2802]

umm wow that was just a weird coincedence that both Brandons are total snobs but i wouldn't say all Brandons are like that. The second thing is i really think that Brandon is not the right guy for you. Firstly he treats u badly like ur said and if the guy really likes u in that way he shouldn't be treating u that way. U want a guy that respects u and truely isn't a snob and a playa. ITe sounds to me that Brandon is neither of these. The third thing is in Brandon defense it is probably his hormone change that is making him all emotional. Like u said first he goes to the pagent one day and the next he is all mad at u. But still that is no way to treat a girl. Anyways my advice is to move on and try to forget about Brandon. Maybe in three more years or so u will see Brandon change and become a nice guy that respects u, then maybe if he is still avaliable go out with him. But right now i will strongly advise that u stay out of the dating game. Maybe wait a year or two.

[Number1MileyFan]

this is from forever ago&none of that stuff applies to me anymore[: lol

btw..."thanks" for putting my username; you're not supposed to do that:|

[flower1]

Bumped thread! Mods, close!

[miley-cyrus_fan4ever]

OMG that's horrible. Guys are stupid. I had a boyfriend once and he treated me like crap! It was horrible because he always flirted with other girls and we broke up once and then got back together and then we broke up for good. I don't like him that much anymore. Only as a friend. But I think you should move on and find another guy that is better and perfect for you and respects you.