Absolute_Lovex3
09-25-2006, 05:54 PM
Okay......... Me && mi friend went to interskate last saturday and we were having fun just skating around. (I am a jam skater if anyof you know what that is) and i was just speed skating around and this gurl comes up to me and asks hey do u want to learn a jam dance and i said sure. so she started to teach me what dance. and we skated around. there was this other gurl named madison and she knew mi friend lauran and she said lauran could come ovr if she wants to. and i went to get lauran and she came ovr but she didnt talk like at all. and me and jessica (the gurl that was teaching me the jam dance) were just talking and laughing and then me lauran, jessica, && madison started to skate around until one of our other friends came her name is rachel and lauran and rachel went to get there roller blades and they started skating. and i would try to talk to lauran but she would act like i am not evn thr. so i went to just u know talk to jessica and she was like ya ya w/e. and i thought she was mad at me. so i left at like 8. and yesterday i went to interskate again and i said hey jessica whats up?? and i had a friend standing next me and she just smiled at her and acted like i wasnt there. and i said jessica whats wrong? and she said wel u dnt like me any more. and i said i like you and she skated off with one of her friends. i am getting wierd vibs here.
OH AN I ALSO NEED ADVICE FOR THIS-------------------------------------------
OKAY! THERE IS THIS GUY AT INTERSKATE THAT I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIS NAME IS CHAD AND HE IS 12 AND HE IS GOING OUT WITH JESSICA ^^ THE GURL THAT HATES ME IN THE OTHR STORY. ANYWAY MI FRIENDS THINKS HE LIKES ME CAUSE HE WAS SKATING AROUND WITH ME YESTERDAY AND TALKING TO ME AND SMILING ALOT. WHAT SHOULD I DO I DONT WANT TO GIVE JESSICA THE INPRESSION I WANT TO STEAL HIM FROM HER. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? OH AND I DONT THINK HE SHOULD GO OUT WITH HER BECAUSE JESSICA IS 10 AND I AM TURNING 12 IN OCT!! I MEAN AGE WISE I SHOULD GO OUT WIT HIM RITE??
Well I'll start with your first problem..:33:
You've reached one of the things that probably always happens in every friendship. The part where they say things like "you don't like me" and ignore you? It's happend to me when I was about hmm..your age? Your 11 right? Well, this happens to a lot of friends. Trust me, this will be something you and your friends won't even remeber in a month. First of all, even if your friend won't talk to you, you have to make sure she's listening. Say something like "To fix this problem I need to know whats up! I still like you, can't I be friends with whoever I want to be friends with?" You really gotta find out why your friends are being like this, and tell them how you feel even if they ignore you, they are still listening. Once you tell them give them some time to think about it and see what happens. If they don't understand than they are not a true friend. From the way I see it I think that all you need is to talk and have a little friendship mending! :57:
Now about the boy...
So this guy is already going out with someone? Well even if you think he likes you more you can't break up their relationship. :( Sorry, but if he really like you that way then he would ask you out I guess. Or, maybe he is just nervous to break up with Jessica :33: Now this, you have to find out, sorry but I can't talk to Chad for you. So maybe you could just ask Chad if he feels that way about you...or you can wait and see if he asks you out. :57:
OH AN I ALSO NEED ADVICE FOR THIS-------------------------------------------
OKAY! THERE IS THIS GUY AT INTERSKATE THAT I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIS NAME IS CHAD AND HE IS 12 AND HE IS GOING OUT WITH JESSICA ^^ THE GURL THAT HATES ME IN THE OTHR STORY. ANYWAY MI FRIENDS THINKS HE LIKES ME CAUSE HE WAS SKATING AROUND WITH ME YESTERDAY AND TALKING TO ME AND SMILING ALOT. WHAT SHOULD I DO I DONT WANT TO GIVE JESSICA THE INPRESSION I WANT TO STEAL HIM FROM HER. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? OH AND I DONT THINK HE SHOULD GO OUT WITH HER BECAUSE JESSICA IS 10 AND I AM TURNING 12 IN OCT!! I MEAN AGE WISE I SHOULD GO OUT WIT HIM RITE??
Well I'll start with your first problem..:33:
You've reached one of the things that probably always happens in every friendship. The part where they say things like "you don't like me" and ignore you? It's happend to me when I was about hmm..your age? Your 11 right? Well, this happens to a lot of friends. Trust me, this will be something you and your friends won't even remeber in a month. First of all, even if your friend won't talk to you, you have to make sure she's listening. Say something like "To fix this problem I need to know whats up! I still like you, can't I be friends with whoever I want to be friends with?" You really gotta find out why your friends are being like this, and tell them how you feel even if they ignore you, they are still listening. Once you tell them give them some time to think about it and see what happens. If they don't understand than they are not a true friend. From the way I see it I think that all you need is to talk and have a little friendship mending! :57:
Now about the boy...
So this guy is already going out with someone? Well even if you think he likes you more you can't break up their relationship. :( Sorry, but if he really like you that way then he would ask you out I guess. Or, maybe he is just nervous to break up with Jessica :33: Now this, you have to find out, sorry but I can't talk to Chad for you. So maybe you could just ask Chad if he feels that way about you...or you can wait and see if he asks you out. :57: